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Submitted by mom23ms on Thu, 01/20/2011 - 6:40pm

So after telling my BF I was moving I ened up getting strep throat and an ear infection so I have not been able to do anything. He has stepped up to the plate and taken care of me which I knew he would because he has always taken good care of me. His kids have not been around because my Bio kids ended up catching Scarlete Fever and it's best his kids don't get sick. So even though his middle daugther (the ham nazi) has text her dad a few times to ask how I was feeling, I don't feel the least bit guilty for not liking her. I mean apart of me thinks I should feel bad for feeling the way I do about her and her sisters but I don't. They never cared before so why should they care about me now? Am I wrong? Should I just cut the kid some slack???? :?

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stepmama.of.a.prince's picture

Submitted by stepmama.of.a.prince on Thu, 01/20/2011 - 8:30pm

I'm on the 'cut her some slack' side too.

God bless you and I hope you and your kids get to feeling better,

and why not take all of the kind words you can to get you feeling better...right?

And plus, maybe it takes a little to may that little one show some her ability to care..?

Much different than BM or Biodad, she is not obligated to text you, so go ahead, appreciate it! Smile

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Submitted by Zoie on Thu, 01/20/2011 - 6:56pm

Well .... I say cut her some slack and see if she really does care..maybe this is the start of something good...

I hope you are feeling better....

Z

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Submitted by oneoffour on Thu, 01/20/2011 - 7:55pm

OK, so either you can accept her query and feelings as acceptable and appropriate for today and be the grown up. Or not. Which makes you just as silly and they are.

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Submitted by sixteensmom on Thu, 01/20/2011 - 10:48pm

I say don't believe it for a second. It won't last. She will be evil again next week. Don't fall for it.

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Submitted by ddakan on Fri, 01/21/2011 - 4:53am

Wow, this is when being sick turns out to be a good thing, no skids! With hating skids, I take it one day at a time. I fully enjoy when they are not here and I dread when I hear they may come over. I actually start getting upset and gradually work up to "beside myself". I've been through too much b.s. with my skids. They are 21, 20, and 17 and I don't have to see them often. The youngest claims to hate me.

As much as I rant and sound evil, I have never hated my skids. I actually love them to a point. The fact that they were taught how to be assholes by their mother is sad. It has hurt them because they cannot properly function in relationships or society.

THIS IS MY THOUGHT:

I want the skids to be happy, but not at MY expense! (not anymore..LOL)