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Submitted by purpledaisies on Tue, 03/22/2011 - 1:05pm

Dropped the boys off on sun at the meeting place. Before we left bm texted saying she wanted dh to give her dome money for ss15's letter man that he agreed to pay for half.

I was experimenting with some self tanners before we left and I look really good. I also had on a pair of shorts and a top that had slits in the shoulders. This is how I normally dress no big deal. I like to look nice every where I go.

Now I normally don't get out when we drop them off but sunday dh said he wanted some chicken nuggets (mcdonalds is the drop off point) so I got out and bm glanced over and then refused to look or talk to dh or me. (I could care less if she talked to me) So while we were eating dh said did you see that bm refused to look at us or talk to us nor did she ask for the money she asked for earlier. Of course dh had this huge grin on his face. I did not pay much attention to bm til dh said something. Wonder what she was think???

I really thought she would text dh and tell him that I needed to stop dressing like a slut in front of the boys but she never did. However it feels good to know I got under her skin without meaning too. }:)

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Tue, 03/22/2011 - 1:27pm

B/c I know how she thinks. That is all. She thinks that the girls in the Miss America pageant is all fat and ugly and they all dress like sluts.

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Submitted by aggravated1 on Tue, 03/22/2011 - 2:39pm

Some of them ARE really ugly-have you seen the contestant on the Amazing Race that was in pageants? Hideous.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Tue, 03/22/2011 - 1:50pm

Nope she is crazy so what she thinks and says and does makes no sense. Trust me it took a while for me to just let her say the crap she says and just let it go b/c it doesn't make sense.

Why else would she think that the girls in the miss America pageant are all fat and ugly? They are the most gorgeous women in the usa.

I don't know why she thinks I'm fat and ugly when she is 3x as big as I am for starters. But hey what ever makes her feel better. Plus I didn't wear anything to get to her it was unintentional.

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Submitted by ubrngoutdbitchnme on Tue, 03/22/2011 - 1:54pm

When I first moved in with my FH I was about 35 pounds heavier. BM saw me about 3 times. She has told my SD that I have ugly hair and she has told FH that I am ugly!

Now, I am 35 pounds lighter and I can't wait til she sees me in a pair shorts and a cute top!

You should feel flattered that you looked too damn good that even BM didn't want to embarrass herself by gawking at you!

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Tue, 03/22/2011 - 2:01pm

Thank you. As I said I didn't set out to get under her skin I was just being me. And since I never get out at drop off or pick ups she really don't see me. But Sunday was just that dh happened to be hungry or at least he said he was. But I can tell it felt good to see her face and the way she acted when she saw me.

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Submitted by newmom01 on Tue, 03/22/2011 - 2:20pm

but you know thats how we have to play the game a lot.....if we are going around the baby momma us wives always need to look our best....YEAH yeah yeah who cares what she thinks (we do) be honest! at least about that, especially if your hubby is seeing her on a regular basis to pick up kids and what not ...although he loves you the wife, he still has eyes dont give him a reason to lust after her.....dress good for your man so he thinks only of you!

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Submitted by aggravated1 on Tue, 03/22/2011 - 4:16pm

I am right there with you on this one. I know I look better than Sascrotch on my worst day, both inside and out. If I thought for one second that DH still entertained thoughts of her hotness, I would instantly find him less appealing, anyway.

I don't go out of my way to try to "compete" with her though, nor do I really care what she thinks of me. I don't respect her at all, and I think she is as dumb as a box of rocks: why would I care what she thinks?

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Submitted by newmom01 on Tue, 03/22/2011 - 2:21pm

but you know thats how we have to play the game a lot.....if we are going around the baby momma us wives always need to look our best....YEAH yeah yeah who cares what she thinks (we do) be honest! at least about that, especially if your hubby is seeing her on a regular basis to pick up kids and what not ...although he loves you the wife, he still has eyes dont give him a reason to lust after her.....dress good for your man so he thinks only of you!

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Tue, 03/22/2011 - 2:36pm

leah yep I took a pic of her on my cell (I blogged about it) the main reason I did that was b/c she tells everyone how ugly I am and fat so I took the pic and believe me everyone that was begging me to see her saw it! And their face said it all. LOL }:)

She really is HUGE! She has a mans hair cut and a huge hook nose. She tells herself that I'm fat and ugly top make herself feel better. She even told me that she was prettier than me on her worst day compared to my best day. I just laughed. Even my skids have said she is nuts to think that she is prettier. That one I was kinda shocked about but hey even your kids know the truth!

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Submitted by starfish on Tue, 03/22/2011 - 3:52pm

SD2, my thoughts exactly...... pd, no offense, but you have many posts complimenting yourself ~ we all need a pick me up once in a while. but i'm concerned you may be dealing with some serious self-esteem issues... i'm not a dr or therapist, but you spend a lot of time trying to impress cyber strangers on a ST board.

have you talked to anybody about this?? are you seriously depressed? is your relationship as great as you portray??

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Tue, 03/22/2011 - 4:02pm

Nope am just fine thank you and there is nothing wrong with my marriage other than little annoyances once in a while.

I think you 2 might need to look in the mirror before accusing people of things you know nothing about.

Yes I do say things about myself b/c I am really am in utter disbelief that a woman like my bm can't see what everyone else sees. And it is funny to me how she seems to think that she is the prettiest and best mother and the best everything (narcissistic).

I know I am not the prettiest person every but I know I'm hotter than she is. So why does she constantly try to make herself believe she is hotter?

That is where I am coming from not that I am trying to build myself up but the fact that bm finds the need to make herself believe she is better, hotter and ect.

If you knew me in real life you would not be saying that crap!

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Submitted by starfish on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 7:03am

somehow, my post was edited w/o my consent?? who would do that?

calm down pd.... didn't mean to strike a nerve... i was just genuinely concerned about your well being...

glad the marriage is awesome, you're hotter than bm, and your titty leak is no longer a problem.

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Submitted by runswithscissors on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 12:01am

Well let's face it...some of the BM's have serious esteem issues. They have to put others down to build themselves up. it's immature. Personally I think PD's esteem is very healthy- There's nothing over the top about knowing when you look nice- isn't that generally what we all strive for?
PD: Bm can't see what everyone else sees because she might be too consumed with jealousy or her own feelings of inadequacy. She has to beleive she is hotter, more successful, better at everything, more desired because facing that her ex's new wife is prettier than her is too much to swallow for some.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Tue, 03/22/2011 - 3:02pm

Spunkie really?? If you had read you would know I did NOT set out to flaunt anything in front of bm! Her the mature one? Really? After all the crap she has done and said about me and mu kids you really think she is the mature one? As I said I did not go to flaunt anything it just happened that she didn't like the fact that I look better than her.

Yes I could tell it got her b/c of the way she acted. YOu do not know the whole story b/c if you had read my blogs you know the crap she put my son through and the crap she says about us.

You also know that I do not do that to her or the skids ever. I don;t even say anything bad at all about the bm in front the skids. she is the one that says nasty things about me and my kids to the skids all the time.

So again her the mature one???

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Tue, 03/22/2011 - 3:46pm

Oh yeah and spunkie she is the one that said she is disabled b/c she is a single mom and it is dh's fault for leaving her.
If you had read any of my other blogs you know that she also b!tches and moans about how she has to do everything herself and gets no help but she doesn't work and the boys are all teens in school all day and she even had the gall to say that people with a 40 hour work week don't have anything on her as she works more and harder then they do with or with out kids. But the moment that dh tries to help by picking one of the boys up from school so she doesn'
t have to worry about that she says "that is NOT going to happen"

So again I ask who is the mature one??? B/c yeah to think like that it take maturity, class and a brain!

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Submitted by liks on Tue, 03/22/2011 - 4:15pm

hahaha...love it girls....

I actually do the same and more....

let the skids know that I suck their fathers toes and fingers cos it relaxes their Dad and should ever a women do that to them one day...then you will know that she truly loves you....

hahahaha....the kids puked and it got back to BM .....

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Submitted by caregiver1127 on Tue, 03/22/2011 - 9:35pm

GROSS!!! Toe sucking - I just threw up in my mouth a little!!! :sick: :sick: :jawdrop: :jawdrop: :sick: :sick:

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Submitted by liks on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 9:03am

20 something years ago I did it to my husband (before either of us had the kids and wen we were just dating...) in fact I sucked every part of his body...he was heading back home and I wanted him to remember me....I loved him so much then and if I could just do something that he cld remember me by maybe he might call or betta still, come back and see me one day...yeah he finally called 17 years later...so the toe sucking and licking obviously worked.....besides...we had just had a shower together at the time.. He enjoyed it so much....I kissed his arm pits the other day....I dont care...I love him with all my heart and sole....ill do anything to see him happy....cos that makes me happy

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Submitted by aggravated1 on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 9:15am

LOL!!! OMG, I am DYING!!!
liks, you have cracked me up LOL!!!!

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Submitted by liks on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 9:48am

Im not a weirdo in the bedroom just love shocking my Husband....makes me smile...

he deserves everything after having to live with the lesbian witch for 10 years....

Wink

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Submitted by overit2 on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 9:52am

HA!! You too huh? Yep....lesbian witch for my bf also...his was about 5-6yrs though.

And yep...we are crazy affection and high drive and on eachother all the time also. We have fun with it Smile

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Submitted by overit2 on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 10:10am

LOL-you must really be on top of my posts for some odd reason-I didn't create a blog- I commented on a blog back a month ago almost..happened once...too many long islands Wink That's why I was mad...truth be told him being 30 we average daily or twice a day, 3 times when we have kids free wknds....so if I miss one I get moody and angry....that help?

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Submitted by liks on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 10:07am

OH REALLY?

So did your carpet munchen ugly toad BM make your husband hang around to support her kids and illigitamate lifestyle so that noone will talk ill of her and the kids wont feel too uncomfortable as well?

and of course 6 years later Im on the scene and its like it was my fault she turned (was actually born butch) lesbian....well thats what she indirectly suggests to the spawns.

fricken turd....

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Submitted by overit2 on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 10:17am

Nope....his case was different, but that has to suck!!!
Pretty sure she was always this way but due to upbringing, family views, society norm never was open about it. Wish she would have been, would have save my bf tons of pain and subsequent drama. I know the be who you are is easier said then done though. She's been disowned by her parents I understand. BUT she seems to be pretty "out" now.

He did know that somethign was seriously wrong-she was very messed up in the head, very agressive, perhaps she was fighting who she was...she's a big girl, but not horrid to look at (not too pretty either)...she is more the "femme" i guess...her lover is the full butch..short/shaven hair, piercings, tattoos, 280-300lbs, dresses like a guy, moves like a guy, the kind that you see on the street and think "dear god" without even knowing she's associated to BM. Well-i'll stop because those on the board that don't like me will automatically flag this as hateful because I'm criticizing a lesbian instead of a straight woman. Anyways lol....

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Submitted by liks on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 10:59am

OH Dont stop....your describing my BM lesbian bitch....she is the butch one.....ugly fat tattooed aggressive and everyone and her family hate her....oh except the skids...they think she is awesome as she parades out at lesbian conventions

when I was in the army one of the lesbian female soldiers confided in me that she was going to find a man have a baby and bring it up on her own....i questioned 'wot if the man wants to have some input into the baby' she said she hadnt decided if she would let them or if she would keep the pregnancy a secret

She then dated with the most gulluble nicest guy - so so young too....and once she was 3 mths and after they split up...she announced she was pregnant and then finally announced it was his....

I wonder if this loveless marriage that my DH had to endure didnt have an element of this soldier girls plan in his ex bitch....?

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Submitted by runswithscissors on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 12:05am

see that would be interesting to see the BM in my world NOT look like a lazy,child support-grubbing whore. I can't even fathom it. Even at her best, she still may as well wear a suit of jello with a sign that says " Hi, I'm fucked up" She would likely look better.

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Submitted by overit2 on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 8:37am

" Even at her best, she still may as well wear a suit of jello with a sign that says " Hi, I'm fucked up" She would likely look better."

ROFLOL-this is awesome!! LOL Made my morning-needed the chuckle, thanks!!!

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Submitted by starfish on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 7:36am

no kidding!!

"Same boredom issue that might cause one to take another ST poster's exact story and post it on a Disney board. YIKES!"

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Submitted by overit2 on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 8:46am

HOw unfair-I have seen the same posters criticizing you brag about themselves, put down bm and skids out of boredom, etc...i don't see why PD vent/brag/feel good moment is any different then the hundreds of posts we see all day on this board, including all of you that have decided to add this poster to your gang up shit list. Pretty pathetic and standard hypocritical talk IMO.

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Submitted by aggravated1 on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 9:20am

this whoel thread is cracking me up.
I am not trying to be mean, i am just saying it has made me laugh.

The toe sucking, the hotness while buying chicken mcnuggets-it is just striking me as really really funny.
I think I might even go buy self tanner and then go to Disney World!

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Submitted by liks on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 9:51am

yeap blonde and gorgous...and im not going in there with an open mouth and sucking the flesh...just a little lip kiss and blow softly....yeah it tickles him a bit too...but Im only at that for a few minutes then Im licking from his armpit to his nipple....he loves it...!

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Submitted by liks on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 10:14am

hmmmm.....?????? Nuggetts????

now wot cld I do with them????
:?

you guys are hilarious......hahaha

PD thanks for providing us with this opportunity

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Submitted by Soon-to-be-Step... on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 9:37am

You know what makes me smile? BM used to call me fat...fast forward to a year later and she has gained a ton of weight and looks older than she is! Definitely a confidence booster if I do say so.

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Submitted by starfish on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 9:38am

that mysterious invisible pube is the most irritating.....

my o/t blog on liks was removed, so careful with the vivid descriptions..... i don't even think i used bad words in that blog. :?

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Submitted by liks on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 9:41am

BM is a fat ugly toad looking carpet munchen turd!!!

I cant wait to wear my bikini around the house in front of the skids...that way they can go back to ugly toad phsycho bitch and complain how I do this too....

hahahaha....stick it up your arse you bitch

sorry guys just venting....she stole my boyfriend 20 years ago and wouldnt let us have a moment together due to her threatening psycho nature....ill never forgive her...so glad she got uglier than words can describe...and when I look at pics of my husband during their loveless marriage...he too looked ugly and overweight...now he is with the women he has always loved and he is eating the best of food and drinking the best of wine....& lookin 15 years younger....betcha that pisses of the witch

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Submitted by Auteur on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 9:48am

The Behemoth is "big boned" (ahem about 270 lbs) and freakishly tall (six foot). But b/c GG saw the pic that I was sending a fellow STalker on email of the Behemoth and her 2nd hubby the Snuffleupagus all doodied up and out on the town, he thought her picture was "beautiful." He then began to berrate me and told me I was jealous of the Behemoth and that I'm really ugly (went into specifics, thinning, greying hair (I'm 50), couple moles on my face that he never cared about before, and that I had gotten a bit flabby over the last eight years of constant and unending stress.

The Behemoth is turning 40 this week so according to GG, she's now the "hot" one and I'm losing my looks (although that's not what twenty something guys say to me; ahem)

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Submitted by starfish on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 2:23pm

anyone surprised SA didn't get an answer? i guess, i too would be looking for a rock to crawl under after being called out on something like that.. looking for the humiliated smiley... Sad

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 4:03pm

Sorry lades I have been sick and I was trying to do some spring cleaning. Plus am about to start so I think I got a little snippy. I have not read all the replies. I am feeling a little better.

I don't have anyone I can say these things to other than coming here so I say these here since they are the only place I can. When comes to bm I get a little heated as she is constantly trying to make herself look good and sometimes I get caught up in it. I truly did not get out to start anything with her, It was an observation that was noticed on her reaction that was all.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 4:14pm

Stepaside who said I was the one that did that?? First I haven't been to that site a very long time as I find them to be very nasty people and I don't go back.

I have only been doing some research on my up coming trip (crossing my figures). I don't have time to even think of that. As I said I have been sick for about a week now and I was trying to do some spring cleaning but that didn't work out as well as I hoped as I would end up in coughing fits. So NO I have not had time or the though occur to me. WOW

Honestly I don't even know what you are talking about.