We were going to the store for just a minute and actually went without FSD going. As we were pulling out FDH says "She is going to wonder where I'm going and be so mad when she realizes I'm gone" I tell him "she'll get over it...I'm sure of it...She doesn't need to go everywhere you go shadowing you like she's five...she is almost 11 years old" He says "but she is very attached to her daddy...she has always been a real daddy's girl" I just shake my head and don't say anything.
Seriously...is this guy this clueless???? Does he not realize she wants to go anywhere with anyone who is going somewhere on the hope that she will get a toy or food on the outing...she is clingy and nice to everyone who she thinks is going to buy her something or give her money. She only looks for him when she wants some money or to ask him if he can take her somewhere or pick someone up. I guess someone on the outside looking in sees things differently...but I can tell you one thing...I know when my bio-children are playing me but I guess everyone is different :? I actually feel bad for FDH....he is such a sap. Last night FSD was really smart to him and he didn't even correct her. She told him that something was "none of hs business" and when told to do something she told him to "do it yourself". Unreal...I would have tore my son a new one if he talked to me like that...I don't understand how thnigs like that are ok with FDH and he isn't even bothered by that kind of disrespect.