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I officially have the craziest EX's to deal with....but they are not mine!

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Submitted by newlywed7 on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 9:09am

I've heard horror stories in the past about people's ex's. When my ex and I divorced, I swore we wouldn't (or at least I wouldn't) be that way. We have been divorced for years and get along great. Heck, he and my new husband sit together at my daughter's games. BUT....it never occurred to me that getting remarried meant dealing with my new husbands's EX...both Ex's! One's actually diagnosed crazy, and the other, well,...should be. Does it ever stop????

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 9:14am

In my case.. sorry to say no. I have two BM's to deal with (DH was never married to either) and both are crazy. When one isn't acting up the other one is, so it seems that there is never a break from the madness.

I seriously think that I deserve a freekin Nobel Peace Prize for putting up with the crap that I have no control over day after day after day after...but of course I knew what I was getting into

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Submitted by newlywed7 on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 9:31am

Great....
Well today we are going to talk to an attorney. I'm tired of her crap. I think it's time to put her in her place and tell her to back off. She still wants to control my husband and what better way than with a kid. Sorry, not while I'm around. She keeps threatening us and I think it's time to call her bluff.

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Submitted by Auteur on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 9:44am

Good luck! It all depends on how your hubby handles it. If he has a habit of "tail between the legs when BM comes a'calling" (for the sake of his kids TM) that stuff is HARD to break!!!

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Submitted by newlywed7 on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 10:11am

He is pretty laid back, so he's probably not as tired of it as I am, except that he wants to ensure peace between he and I, and let's face it...if mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy! He's a good man, but sometimes I think he is too nice. I think he gives in to her just because he doesn't want there to be a fight. But, now that he sees I'm tired of her controlling or trying to control our lives, he's beginning to step up a little. We are going to the attorney today.

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Submitted by Auteur on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 10:43am

AS long as he has his priorities straight, namely peace between you and him. AND NOT peace between the BM and him!!!