Again, thanks everyone for replying to my blog earlier. We were going to do the email thing but we saw SS in person.

Last evening, we ran into SS at the mall. He was with his friends. My DH decided to walk up to him and talk to him. He started explaining that he thought it was only one ticket. SS says "I don't want to hear your excuses. I told you I was sending tickets so you guys could come. I said both of you would be able to come. But you always think I'm out to do something bad. If you were confused why the f*** didnt you call me? You are so retarded. At least now I know where I stand in your life and how much I mean to you. And don't worry. You don't have to come to my college graduation too. Just stay the f*** away from me". Now that I think about it, SS did say he was sending tickets for both of us. My DH was just too stubborn and stupid to call SS and clarify things.

My DH then brings up how SS never came to visit properly for almost two and a half years. SS blows up. He says how BM got sick and could not work and he had to work his a** off so they would not lose the house. He asked why my DH wanted him to come by so much. So that we could rub it in his face on how good we have it compared to him? SS then goes on to say he asked to be treated equally for once in his life with the car. But he does not want it anymore. He wanted to stay at home while going to college to save money. But bussing it would take hours because of all the transfers and he needed to drive. But he said he does not want the car and told my DH to go f*** himself. My DH was speechless. SS never spoke like that to him before. We did not even know BM was sick. My SS just walks away and his friends gave us dirty looks. It was so humiliating. My DH was very hurt. The whole drive home he was saying "I had no idea", referring to BM being sick and SS working to pay the bills. He went for a long drive by himself again. He was crushed.

I am so pissed and sad at the same time. My DH's family are still acting like assholes. Now I hear that MIL is having family over from out of state for the graduation party. The party that my DH, SS's father, is excluded from. My DH tried talking to MIL about this was making him feel and she says, "I love you. But this is not about you. You made a mistake. But I will not let SS go without a graduation party because of you." I was shaking as she said that to my DH. I want to get a time machine and just make my DH make that single call. My DH still wants to give the car to SS. He wants to give it irregardless of if SS goes to college or not, which was part of the deal. I do not give a damn about that car. I want people to stop thinking I am some sort of a evil bitch. I am so angry at him and sad about how their relationship is going.