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I'm pissed...I just don't get it

jojo68's picture

Submitted by jojo68 on Tue, 09/13/2011 - 11:20am

DH came from BM's after picking up SD with a paper in his hand (a form needed to be completed for some welfare deal I think)that was a form that needed to be notarized. I guess she told him to handle it for her since he worked where there is a notary...he then realized that me his wife is a notary and asked me if I would do it. No big deal I did it and brought the paper back home. This morning I told him since she didn't show last night I would leave the paper there (at our house) and she could sign my book next time I saw her.

DH said...why can't you just take her the paper on your way home from work tonight??? :jawdrop:

Are you f***ing kidding me...this lazy bitch does not have a job and does nothing all day and DH actually asked me who works 8-9 hours a day and then comes home to make dinner and do housework to go out of my way to take her a paper that she could have went to the f***ing bank down the street and had notarized her damn self..WTF

I am really pissed at DH...I don't understand why it is ok to put me out because of her and this is not the first time, its just the straw that broke the camel's back.

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purpledaisies's picture

Submitted by purpledaisies on Tue, 09/13/2011 - 11:31am

I wouldn't have done a thing! I would have told dh to do it himself or give it back. It is HER responsibility not yours nor your dh's! Tell your dh to stuff it and next time you won't do a thing! What crap that is.

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Submitted by newmom01 on Tue, 09/13/2011 - 11:33am

Im not trying to be a butt, but you really were not suppose to do it anyway for family, im a notary too! But if the family members have a diffrent last name than me, I would do it too, but it becomes a problem because i always ending up doing it and not getting any money Sad but its family Wink

But back to the real issue, YEAH tell her to get off her lazy butt and pick up that dang paper! Tell her you will leave it under the door mat. so whenever she gets the time it will be under there waiting for her

jojo68's picture

Submitted by jojo68 on Tue, 09/13/2011 - 11:38am

LOL@ the getting money part...I'm such a sap that I don't hardly ever charge anyone. BM is not family...LOL She is DH's former shack up and SD mother so I think I can get away with it.

jojo68's picture

Submitted by jojo68 on Tue, 09/13/2011 - 11:33am

I think it is time for me to start standing up for myself and be a bitch sometimes and then maybe my needs won't be over looked as much!!!!

dragonfly5's picture

Submitted by dragonfly5 on Tue, 09/13/2011 - 11:34am

I'd be pissed too! I wouldn't raise a finger to help "crazo". I don't care how small the action was.

Newstep's picture

Submitted by Newstep on Tue, 09/13/2011 - 11:34am

That would have set me off!! I would have told him his ex-wife can handle her own business. I think sometimes these guys are so used to the BM's control that it's ingrained in them. :O

jojo68's picture

Submitted by jojo68 on Tue, 09/13/2011 - 11:40am

Oh yes totally agreed...it is like they never get over the BS or maybe they like it...Who the hell knows

DaizyDuke's picture

Submitted by DaizyDuke on Tue, 09/13/2011 - 12:03pm

that is ridiculous! the only thing I ever notarized for BM was her eviction notice from the house that DH was WAYYYY too kind to rent to her prior to our meeting. Of course since I notarized it that meant that I couldn't serve it to her scumbag ass too, but oh well can't win them all..

mlmt1128's picture

Submitted by mlmt1128 on Tue, 09/13/2011 - 12:08pm

I would not have notarized it either. SHe is supposed to sign the form in front of you! Make her drag her lazy butt to you, sign it in front of you, then she can have her form.

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Submitted by RaeRae on Tue, 09/13/2011 - 12:17pm

So, your DH asked you to fraudulently notarize a paper for his ex lover? And you did it? She is supposed to do it in your presence, ID in hand.

jojo68's picture

Submitted by jojo68 on Tue, 09/13/2011 - 3:46pm

Fully aware of the rules of being a notary...it was wrong of me but I just wanted to get it over with but I guess it backfired when she didn't show up to sign and pick it up.