We get home from running errands. DH gets out of the car and starts walking SS2 to the door. I get the mail and then start across the driveway toward the house.

Then BM pulls into our driveway at our 30 miles per hour and stops about a foot away from me. She gets out, looks directly at me, and says "you guys forgot SS5" in an obviously pissed off way.

Bang. I suddenly remember that it is early release day (which means it is DH's day to pick SS5 up, not mine). I look at DH and say to him "why didn't they call you?"

BM looks at me and says "They did!"

Then she lets SS5 out of the car and drives away. As usual, DH has no reaction to any of this nonsense and continues to go about his day as planned.

However, today, I am still in shock. And I'm pissed off. And I feel like that was a deliberate threat. She got so close so fast that I literally jumped out of the way before I even realized whose car it was.

Am I overreacting?

If I EVER got that close to someone in my car, I would apologize. And if I was too pissed off to apologize, I definitely would not get out of my car and start whirling around accusations. I feel like if it had been an accident, she wouldn't have acted so aggressive after she got out of the car.

Also, why was she looking at me while making her accusations? She knows it was not my day to pick up SS5. It was DH's.

At this point, actually, I am seriously questioning her timing as well. How is it that the INSTANT we pull into the driveway, she pulls in right behind us? We were 45 minutes late from picking up SS. Considering the fact that she used to stalk us pretty regularly, I sort of suspect she was parked around the corner waiting for us to come home so she could make a big scene.

I'd really like a second perspective on this.