my x husband paid all his cs OFF, was enough that i was able to go buy me a car out right. so i did that so dh wouldn't have anymore excuse to go find a fucking job. (and to give me wings to get out if i need to)

i didn't say anything to sd24 cause she did comment that this also enables her to go get a job-why i bought another car. and i had change left over from that purchase.

mom offered her house cause she found out that sd24 is pg (hard to NOT notice now) and pretty much knows that i'm the only one working (hard for that to NOT be obvious too) so she said "while your dd away to her dad's for the holiday, it would be a good time to go take a break, you can bunk at my house if you need"

so i brought that up to dh told him i needed a break he said "it feels like your running away cause you did that with all your x bf's" (i did) but i told him, well, how else am i going to get a break? he didn't respond. then we almost got into it today, cause every since we've moved in he's had a hard time remembering to close the fucking cabinet door's so i told him i'm going to start removing the damn things...............he stormed off.

and of course he's now not feeling good, so that'll be his excuse to not get out today and job hunt...........grrrrrrrrrrrrrr