I have come to the conclusion, THIS SUCKS ALREADY!!!!!!! But I'm still smiling!!!

As everyone knows SD16 does not go with BM anymore. She was going for dinners but that has even stopped. They fight all the time. Now they fight on the phone, its unreal.

Well this weekend BS came home from college for his bday...My baby was 21 this weekend, where has that time gone, anyway he wanted me to make his favorite meal and a homemade cheese cake. Well let me tell you homemade cheese cakes are a pain in the ass. But I did it....Well sat BS14 had a soccer game and to make this dinner I needed to stay home so we could eat at a semi reasonable time so BS21 took his brother to the game. SD16 did not want to go and had an attitude from the time she got up to the time she went to bed....WHY you may ask? The day wasnt going to be about her. The day was about my son and his bday...So she wasnt to happy about that. She woke up in the morning of course complaining of thinking she needed to vomit (she does this everyday) so her father tells her you will be fine and he goes in the garage (she was pissed at that)....I clean up the house a bit (have 4 children there, my 2 boys SD16 and sons girlfriend)I start preparing my meal so later I can just put into oven. SD starts fighting with BS14...He storms outside and BS21 follows. I am in kitchen and SD goes past me crying. i go outside and my boys tell me SD is a B&^*^& and they can not stand her anymore. I of course ask what happened. DH comes out of garage and hears what happened..Guess SD came into living room changed channel on my son so that started world war 3 and when my son pulled remote out of her hands I guess he scratched her which caused a little tiff....BS21 got between them and my 14 year old stormed out and SD went to room....DH says I will handle this if thats OK...OK YES PLEASE DEAL!!!! that was first episode...

Then SD sits in living remainder of day sulking like a 6 year old...and decides at 4 to take a nap...now my boys have left to go to mall ()they asked SD but of course she does not want to go) (she goes no where) and then 14 year old's game. DH asks her were eating at 7 she then says (now mind you I am making this big family dinner for my sons 21st bdy) I am not eating with you guys....DH gets furious, OMG I have never seen him so mad and storms upstairs to talk to her....Long story short she ate with us...

The moral of these stories for once I stayed out of all drama...I cooked dinner, made a cheese cake, cleaned, did laundry, had some glasses of wine and never got stressed...Yah it pissed me off her acting like such a brat at her age but you know what, I have her 24/7 now and if i continue to get aggravated with her behavior I will be divorced before you know....In my head when she said I am not eating with you guys...I was thinking oh yes you are..you are a part of this family and just because the day isnt about you your going to act like this...I just kept ignoring it and at one point she asked me "you OK today" I smiled and said yes I am great today!!!! She looked at me weird but I think she likes the drama and likes when I get all upset...Well guess what not anymore...DH has been taking care of things lately and in 18 days we go away for a long weekend for our 5 year and that is all I can see. SD is staying with her grandparents which she is already not happy about...cant wait to see what is wrong with her then...OH and she has been out of school twice last week and one of those days DH made her go in and at 9 she had BM pick her up DH was bullshit!!!! He is seeing her ways oh to well lately....I'm still smiling!!!