After i left work, was not feeling well about the situation at all. Was actually not happy about going home but fingured OK I'll go home, take a run and then start dinner and continue this cycle best i can.

I got home and the house was straight (which when SD is around, which is always, it never is) The table was set all nice nice, kids were no where to be found. So of course I say "hello I'm home". BS21 comes down and says hey mom. Im like hi what is all this. He says in a low voice. SD came home from school she set table, dusted the living room, and then went to her room. As he was talking SD came in kitchen and said Hi, how was your day...ahh it was OK how was yours, good she said. I was wondering what we were having for dinner and if it would be ok if I made dinner today so you and dad can hang. Ahh that sounds fine i took out chicken, do you know how to cook it? (she has NEVER cooked) She says well dad said if it was ok with you we could grill. So I can make side dishes, a salad and rice, is that OK? Sure. Great. I think I am going for a run. She says Oh ok dad is in garage. I'll wait to start things till you come back OK? Sure. OK I am thinking whos house is this?

So I change go see DH who is in the garage, we talk for a bit he tells me when he got home this was all done and SD drove to school this morning and said she had a great day. (WOW OK)....So I go for my run when i get back she tells me OK I'm gonna start things, I already marianted chicken and put in fridge. Dads on the deck I'll take care of things here you go hang. OK WTF is going on. So it was raining but DH had orning (however you spell) up. So we hung out and talked. We ate dinner together SD was very quite. Dinner was done, the kids said we will do dishes. DH and i went into living room. i could hear the kids laughing and joking.

After they were done they came into living room they all sat for a awhile then my boys went to there room. Then SD got up came up to me leaned over and gave me a kiss on the cheek :jawdrop: and said this will be all the time I promise and she went to HER ROOM!!!! HER ROOM PEOPLE....I just kept thinking "is she on drugs"? WTF happened... I mean I know its only one day but this shit has NEVER happened in the 5 years DH and I have been married. She has NEVER kissed me, I mean WOW! She stayed in her room all night. DH and I had a great talk about somethings, we had a fabulous night.

This morning SD came down and decided she would drive to school, and it is raining. She was scared I could tell but I told her drive slow, take your time, you will be fine....She said i know, I have to do this! :jawdrop: and she left. I do not know if this will last, I do not know what will happen, I do not know anything. All I know is last night and this morning was great and i am going to take it one day at a time.

Our therapy session was cancelled and re-sch for tomorrow (therapist went home sick) and it will be DH and I only. SD's session is next week.

Oh and DH apoligized for lying to me about punishment. BTW she has no laptop it is in our room and she can have it for homework that is to be done in living room where DH can monitor the use. She was OK with it.

Noth sure what happened maybe being away opened her eyes I dont know. All I know is I hope this works. Fingers are crossed!