OMG!!! If it's not BM it's my ex's family!! Good Lord!!!
I dropped my BD12 off at her great aunts this morning were her grandmother (my ex-MIL) is staying and I asked her to make sure she kept my daughter out of the drama that was going on with her and my ex-FIL (who is in the early stages of dementia and been addicted to pills for years and recently getting violent by what she says) So she left him over the weekend.
Anyway at around 2pm my Ex-FIL calls me at work and says that my daughter and his wife broke into his house and stole his guns and he is going to press charges against my daughter unless I get his guns back for him. He said the neighbors saw my daughter carrying his guns out of the house!
Ok so of-course at this point I am freaking out WTF??? right! So I text MIL and ask her exactly that WTF? I thought I told you to keep her out of this what is going on. She says all they did was go get clothes and feed the dog since he was in the hospital (checked himself in for a supposed fake heart attack last night, he also called my daughter last night and left a voice mail very calmly saying he was having a heart attack and it was all her grandma's fault!) ???? Who can talk calmly while having a heart attack!??
Anyway, so I also text my ex-husband and said I don't know what the *u*k is going on with your family but they are about to not see BD for awhile and told him what ex-FIL said on the voice mail. He apologized begged me to not hold it against his mom, etc.
So I get a call "restricted" and when I'm on my way home I check the voice mail, it is ex-FIL AGAIN!!! Telling me his lawyers name and how scared I should be if I don't get his guns back from my daughter he is going to have her arrested and that the neighbors saw her carry his gun safe out....ok people this gun safe weighs like at least 200lbs or more, I highly doubt my 12yr old 130lb 5'7" daughter carried his gun safe!
Anyway apparently the cops checked and the guns are still there which scares me because I actually wish they would have taken them.
What gets me is I have barely spoken to this man since I divorced my ex, WHY is he calling me!!!!!? (oh he called me at midnight from the hospital last night too!)
I told DH what the hell, you divorce out of a crazy ass family and they won't *u*king leave you alone!!! Usually it's BM but this time it's my past!
Anyway needless to say I'm drinking right now ya'll!...lol
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All visits would be
:jawdrop: All visits would be supervised for the time bieng if it were me! Holy crazy batman!
I would have about died of a
I would have about died of a heart attack myself if I was told that my 12 year old was out toting guns around :jawdrop:
I'm with Rhyleighblue about the family education on Dementia...it's a HARD road that they are getting ready to travel.
She wasn't the cops checked
She wasn't the cops checked the gun safe and the guns are still there. She had a laundry basket with clothes and pictures in it.
Oh I know...I did read that
Oh I know...I did read that but just hearing the words would have made my heart jump out of my chest! I was sympathizing with you...:)
(((hugs)))
Oh it did I freaked out and
Oh it did I freaked out and was about to snap on her grandma, Even though my daughter is so timid...so not like me in that way that I can't see her even touching a gun.
I know and I think I'm the
I know and I think I'm the target because I left my ex and devastated the family, regardless that my ex tried to kill me. I think the anger he's felt for me is starting to come out. When he left me a message he made a point of calling me by my full name with my maiden name NOT my married name...which I though was odd.
Anyway it is sad I know he loves my daughter and he is a good man in there, he's just lost it, but I am worried for all our safety because he does have a history of playing with guns.