After withholding the final signature on the divorce papers for the past few months, psycho BM FINALLY sent it off at random and they were divorced a week or so ago. Obviously elated at the news I got fdh a congratulations card... Sd8 saw the card and reported back to her mother what she had seen. BM was furious apparently!!! Poor long suffering sd told fdh that BM said I should not have got him a card and that she did all the work!!! Lol just makes me chuckle... that's all i wanted to say