Stbxh is pulling his shit again about me getting the rest of what I want out of the house. Hello dumbass...we've been seperated for 2 weeks. We, unfortunately, had to file for bankruptcy last year due to medical bills and being laid off from work, we filed Chapter 13 (I think) where we have to pay back out debts through a trustee. Well for the past year those payments have been coming out of my paycheck. We have an appt. to go see our bankruptcy lawyer next week to see about splitting up the payments and what our next step is regarding our house. I told the asshole stbxh that I feel we should atleast wait until after we see him before we do anything. He says he's pushing because he needs to know what all I'm taking so he will know what all he has to replace because of SS13. I totally understand that, I really do. His son shouldn't have to be hurt because his father is an idiot. Just damn I mean really? I've been nice through this whole thing so far. I've only yelled at him the day that he told me about his cheating, lying ass and the day after. I didn't even go off on his little whore gf after her post on facebook but I'm seriously about to loose my cool.