Lets start by saying i did have a good time with the children. It was alot of work but overall went well and my kids and there friends had fun.

We left for camping Friday morning, SD16 followed us up with BS21, his girlfriend and her friend. in our car was myself, DH, BS14 and his friend. Yes we have 6 children with us (god help us)....

We got to the camp ground, set up everything (we did tents this time, not my favorite but the kids love it) we had 4 tents, DH and ours being the mansion of tents LOL....After everything was set up DH yelled out while my boys were already taking off..."OK everything is set, take off, enjoy no need to hang around here, have fun!!!!!! OK!!!! So SD says "gee"...and takes off with her friend....DH and I set some more things up and then just sat and relaxed....We didnt see the kids till lunch time...After lunch I went for a run with my oldest and his girlfriend and he told me the whole car ride up SD16 was taking about some boy who is 20 and he has been texting her :jawdrop: GREAT...New drama....So i told him I cant even think about that and good luck to her. We got back from the run and BS14, his friend and SD's friend were walking towards us...I asked where is SD, her friend tells me she is not feeling well...So I get to site and DH is sitting there with a weird face on him, SD is in her tent..So i ask whats wrong....DH says sd is not feeling well....So long story short she spent the rest of day and night in her tent...Not sick because I found out later she was talking to 20 year old boy the whole time....OK whatever....

Sat comes and the clingy shit begins....SD stayed with us the whole time....The only time i was not with her was when i went for a run...I went for 2 on sat because i had enough of her around....DH told her a number of times go hang with your friend what is wrong with you....Her response was My anxiety is bothering me...I dont feel right...But the whole time she is texting this 20 year old, laughing....I completely ignored it and enjoyed my weekend with my kids...DH sat night in our tent says i am so sorry, this is not going as planned, I dont know what to do with her, WTF....

I told DH you have a long road ahead of you. She needs more therapy, she needs structure she has alot of issues and it is not going to clear up in just a month...he was very upset because he told me he was hoping this weekend went over great and maybe they could move back in but he knows this is not going to happen. i told him I loved him and I was not going anywhere but i could not have them come back...Sunday when we left she was all stupid being daddy daddy daddy...Giving me dirty looks, being cocky, i didnt get upset but when we got home unpacked i did ask DH to leave....BS14 told me she gets cocky with me again I am going to slap her....i told DH and he yelled at her and they left....He told her no phone today and she said to him yah right dream on....I said OK time to go.....Didnt ask what happened, didnt care to be honest...i do not see anything changing with her and until she is gone whether it be college or when she gets married i will continue them not living with us...sad really and i thought i would be more upset by it....But I'm not...i like my peace, I like her not being around....There will be no more family vaca's for awhile...Maybe next year we can try again...Until that time....My life goes on...