Dumb Bitch (the BM) asked us to have the kids for "her" weekend to take them to get school supplies. this is fine and we will purchase the supplies but what exactly does child support cover again?

We buy clothes--that we rarely ever see again
We feed them during our time and they also take home snacks and food.
We pay for health insurance, dr visits and meds (because she never has the $)
We pay for their sports/activities/photos
The Skids say things like "When Daddy pays Mommy this month we are going or getting...."

Dumb Bitch hasn't set up with the payment center yet either after telling my SO for 3 months she was waiting in "queue" to get set up. This has been going on for 2 years...and he finally told her he is putting the child support in escrow starting next month until she sets it up.

Her response in text is "why can't we do it like always...you give me a check?" Dumb Stupid Bitch nags constantly all month for money also...."don't forget Child support!" uhm yeah...we won't Dumb Bitch..don't forget to fall in a deep hole.

I try to stay away from her if possible because she just thinks I am quiet and naive..stupid too. but I am none of that...

I have learned that even if it makes me uncomfortable...to be around her..it pisses her off even more so...EVERY CHANCE I get to be around her....with or without the kids...I am there..(penning it on my calendar) My SO and I took the kids to Back to School night and she showed up with some teenager (I guess her Fiance..doesn't wanna be seen in public or he has to stay a certain distance from schools..) The teachers kept talking to my SO and I as if we were the parents...(didn't help the SD's were hugging on me the ENTIRE time) LOL!!! Dumb Bitch would try to walk ahead of us and had to tell a teacher that "She is the mom" I chuckled.

So----my quest to bother the hell out of her as she does me...I am thinking about joining the "Classroom Parents" or "PTO" too...