BM is gross! and getting grosser!
So BM2 has posted a few pics this week of SS, he is very very overweight, and in ever pic he is eating french fries, or fast food, or some other greasy nasty crap. She is not ashamed of this at all, at all ever. We have talked to her about the kids weight etc, she does not care at all, she feels great when she can cook for them or take them out to eat so that is a big part of the time they spend with her. Whatever, it is not right! In the meantime, you can see her messy ass house in all these pics! Stains all the wall, carpet with stains and holes, peeling wall paper, that is very old and outdated and dirty looking, dirty looking chairs, and kids dressed like clowns! They never go anywhere but fast food places, ever! They have never been to an amusement park with her, she sits in her house all summer, sweating, and trying to prevent kids to come with us on trips because she is gross and spiteful. She always wanted to go a certain destination and DH and his relatives went there she was so mad! Mad and jelous of her own kids, it was really weird. I did not go on trip, so it had nothing to do with me going. It was about her kids getting to see something she didnt get to see, what a bitch!
She's addicted. Pity is a
She's addicted. Pity is a better feeling.
As for the kids Daddy needs to take control by getting custody. His primary reason is the food and how she is making them into reprints of herself. It should be easy enough with a few pictures of her and the kids when thin and how the kids look now. If she dares show in court it'll be obvious enough.
But then You'll have the almost impossible job of trying to get them to lose those eating habits and obviously will have become the evil step-mother. Conversely their lives are at stake. Now what?
My SD13 is going to the beach
My SD13 is going to the beach for the first time next week with friends and their family. BM is spitting nails bc she doesn't get a vacation and has never been to the beach.
Get a job you lazy ass bitch.
It is always amazing to me
It is always amazing to me when one parents sulks cos the other takes the kids somewhere! I mean, do parents sulk about field trips from school too?! Also, annoying when the other parent tries to make you jealous!
Ex took BS7 to Universal, before his financial world came crashing down, and I was thrilled for BS7 - especially as crowds and theme parks are my kryptonite. They have done some other things too. I am always happy BS7 gets to go places.
I am already seeing issues
I am already seeing issues with SD stb4 and eating habits. At BM's she eats snacks all day and doesn't have to eat meals. The snacks are of the unhealthy kind and she is free to eat as much as she wants. Meals are mostly fast food. At our house the snack foods are all on a cupboard she can't get to and they are limited. Hoping this would help with meal eating. It's like she has never seen some of these healthy foods. Then she goes back to BM's and we start over. BM's oldest son is huge and so is BM.
BM doesn't take her kids on vacations cause that is "me time" for her. But wants to control where we go with SD.
It's the other extreme with
It's the other extreme with my SD. Her mum has fed her so much crap with no variance in her diet and 'obeyed' SD's picky eating habits, to the point where she's borderline undernourished. She used to be tall for her age, but now she's falling below average height for her age, and has even begun to comment that all the other kids are taller than her. She's always been of a slim build like her father, but her faltering growth and her seemingly getting 'too skinny' is starting to worry me. She will only eat brown food like chicken nuggets. She flat out refuses to eat any kind of vegetable or fruit, even the stuff she used to love eating. No matter the size of the portion, and even if it's all the foods she likes, she will always leave half. Even if you put out a portion meant for a 3 year old, she will automatically leave half. I don't know why she does it, powerplay, attention seeking, I just don't know. I've seen the way she eats at her mum's house...it's all snacks and crap, unhealthy foods when they do sit down and have a proper meal. Maybe she's just not eating that much because she sees how much of a fat fuck her mum and partner are, and doesn't want to end up like that.
I hate it when BMs take no responsibility for their child's health or diet.
My skids are thin as rails
My skids are thin as rails and sickly. Always sick with something....at 16 and 11 they eat ONLY ramen noodles, chicken noodle soup with no water added (gross), fast food fries and chicken nuggets with salt sprinkled on everything every day. And add in some salty potatoe chips....that is it.
DH and MIL wonder why they are so lethargic and unhealthy. Hmmmmm......
Go read the post about bm not
Go read the post about bm not liking that her kids eat sugar and take that advice.