Toxic Troll requesting "fake check" from DH
As Im writing this, my emotions are all over the place.
Last night BM Toxic Troll came and picked up Munchkin SD13, and was crying. Last month, she was evicted from the apartment. Supposedly during a walk through they saw stains on the carpet from Feral Forger who is a serial hair-dyer. A few weeks ago, she kept Munchkin out of school to search for new apartments, which they found one close by.
So - here it is-------> She has been begging DH to write her a "fake check" for $1,000 that she can take a picture of, to show proof of income to the new apartment people, at the new apartment!
Oh He!! to the NO.
DH told her "no I will not committ fraud". Forget about the fact that pictures of checks is how people make deposits these days!
DH has been "working on his No's":
- No Feral Forger you cannot move back in with us, and trash our home and steal from us.
- No Toxic Troll, you cannot have a "fake" child support check from me...
Im starting to pity her rather than hate her at this point.
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I have never seen a place
ask for a written check for proof of income that wasn't cashed. They would normally need a couple of "cashed" checks, bank statements or her CO that shows your DH should be paying her X amount of money.
I think she may be just trying to get your DH to write a check for her to cash (electronically) and your DH wouldn't be able to say that it was fraud.
20 years
Its been over 20 plus years since Ive applied for a rental space on my own.
I dont know how these things work in general and certainly not as far as disabled folks. And Non-working folks.
I would think bank statements would suffice. When an employee was applying for a new apartment, the rental place called and spoke to my manager who confirmed his bi-weekly pay for the past month.
Considering that she has Feral Forger SD20 for a daughter, I think that there is some lies being told to DH, something fishy.
I just wish she would keep MY husand out of HER shenanigans.
She is a piece of work. How
She is a piece of work. How does a check from your ex-husband prove "income". Doesn't she HAVE actual income? Isn't he paying her alimony? She can show her bank statements. This is very fishy.
Piece of something
Just not work, lololol.
~ She receives spousal support of $300 (cash), Child support of $347 (check), and we THINK but do not know that she might be recieving disability.
~ She had won a settlement for 58,000 and left her job last november, but she told DH that after legal fees and monthly stipend while case was being processed, she now has nothing left.
~ She cleans for a side gig, and receives checks as payment.
YES fishy.
You may have answered this in the past
You may have answered this in the past - but why is alimony in cash? Is it so she doesn't have to claim it as income? When DH paid alimony, we were able to claim it on our taxes and it actually helped us a little bit. If your DH claims it, she should be showing it as income to the IRS.
Cash and trade
And we did not claim it last year (I couldnt find the entry point in turbo tax).
Definitely will this year.
We do not know what she is claiming on her taxes - she lost her job last november 2018. She gets to claim kiddo.
No - never really addressed that, in a previous post.
Im thinking since we only have 4 more months to go that Im not going to bug him on that one..
No need to bring it up now
No need to bring it up now w/only 4 months left. If she ever gets audited it might get caught, alimony should be claimed as income. I resented that DH had to pay alimony - but it did soften it a little in that it did help on our taxes. So glad that is all over!
Hell. No.
Hell. No.
How about being a responsible adult instead? Oh, hahahahahaha.
LOL adult? responsible?
Shes always had someone to "rescue her". She had a boyfriend/puppy dog for 2.5 years, who stuck around after breakup to hlp her with $$$
Prior to divorce she had my DH for over 15 plus years to be her rock in a storm. She has a rich father who lives less than 100 miles away...with a nice big house. She has other options. She needs to go away.
I would have been tempted to
I would have been tempted to respond to the check request with a "Bahahahahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!" or "Have you been drinking?" or "F*ck NO"...
He better NOT give her a check pic or she WILL cash it. A friend of mine just got approved for an apartment and, guess what? A picture of her check and they cashed it without her having to go there.
Thank you Aniki
I just told DH via text that I think Toxic Troll is trying to steal from him, so its NOT just about him committing fraud, I think she would try to use that check photo as a deposit.
The bottom line is that he
The bottom line is that he should do NOTHING for her that is not required by CO. PERIOD. And a picture of a check (that she will surely cash) is NOT required.
Yikes!Are rental backgroun
Yikes!
Are rental background checks that lax where she stays that a picture of a cheque is good enough?
Why doesn't DH draw her a fake lottery winning cheque in crayon?
Put 10 GAZILLION dollars on it...
OMG ROFL
SMH Yes, DH is THAT stupid Toxic Troll.
I just texted DH that I think shes trying to steal from him.
Why doesnt she have Feral Forger do some dirty work for her? Too lazy? No - instead she begs and CRIES to DH. "please trust me and help me committ fraud! For your chiiiiiiiiiilllllllllddddddreeeeennnn"
Rental places have seen it all
They want bank statements, Not a check anybody can fake. But also remember if TT is living on the streets CPS May asked you to take the kids ?
We are ready
We are ready to "Parte". Emergency custody changes to full custody.
Since we have 50/50, its an easy transition!
Except Munchkin has been asking if we will take in the rabbit her mother bought her for the apartment.
.......
I can see why a bank statement would not be 'helpful' to her if she isn't putting what ex gives her.
However, what does any of that have with DH giving her now so much as ten cents or $1000 "fake check"? While she can use her CS and alimony in her total 'income' , the amount she is asking DH for is bogus. If she really needed proof, all she has to do is ask for a letter from him that is legal.
She is either stupid or trying to dupe your DH hoping he is. Munch is safe and home tight with you, you know that, so no need to take BM's text or calls. Block her and ignore.
Still considered Fraud
Anything over 647, is fraudulent.
She needs to suck it up and latch onto a dude. LOL.
For some reason no one seems to want to be her boyfriend!!!!
I cannot imagine why...?
Her 'request' does not pass
Her 'request' does not pass the smell test.
She should call her dad...OR maybe she did and he is smart enough to tell her to find her own way.
Sounds to me that she is not being truthful to dh--- Over a carpet? usually her deposit would cover those damages OR be called normal wear and tare? When I was divorced we lived in a place that changed out the carpet every time someone new came in. Not that ours needed it.
Is she behind in her rent?
Over a carpet?....nahhh.,
Check court records on line in her area. I wonder IF she is being sued for 1000?
Everything is Fishy about her
And it stinks to high heaven.
Her father is a major cheapskate, and doesnt like anyone in his home. Munchkin doesnt visit very often.
AND I was reading online that our city has temporarily prohibited the no-fault evictions, making it so that people won be homeless during the winter storms (only rain but STILL).
We have no idea as to her status on payment of rent or even when she is to be out. We do know that her lease doesnt expire until June 2020.
Every place I ever rented
Every place I ever rented askedfor a pay stub as proof of monthly income
Shady all around
Yes, and she hasnt had income from a regular job for over a year, so Im thinking that she wants to use a check instead because maybe shes claiming self-employed...
Either way, shes stopped asking. Whew!