Stop acting like your MOTY and STOP dying your dark brown hair blonde. You look like a dirty q-tip!

Thankfully BM doesnt affect my life too much to where I would want to say something nasty to her or have any communication with her. I have never said anything directly to BM once we got on "bad terms". I think the fact that I dont care what she says or tries to do, bothers her more. I dont allow her to really affect my life. (of course there are things she does, that affects me, pisses me off, that I have no control over).

I'm sure if I was more affected by her behavior or if I cared about the skids and how she treats them, I would have something to say.

I don't hate BM, and I don't particularly want to put her down. I think, though, I might say...

I will never understand HOW you could have been so incredibly STUPID as to not value [DH name] for the incredible man he is, but I am devoutly thankful for it.

why the hell did you have so many kids if you didn't want to raise them, and why in gods name would you get with someone who has double the kids you have! And then say you can't raise yours because your stepkids take up too much of your time!!

She is not worth my breath, I would rather stay away from her than speak a word.
BUT, if I could:

You are abusive to your children and the damage is become very evident, remember how abusive and controlling your mother is? Well you ACT JUST LIKE HER!
I'm tired of you "victim" mentality, I'm tired of your abuse to the kids and DH. Your behavior is NOT very becoming, and makes you look uneducated and pathetic.
You lack tact, class and SELF RESPECT!

I wouldn't say anything. It's a waste of time and energy, she doesn't listen anyways and when I don't communicate with her, it pisses her off even more }:)

Sure, there are lots of things that I would like to say to her. But zero communication or interaction with her is sooooooo much better. Only 7 more years and we can cut her off completely and never have to say a word to her or hear a word from her.

I say nothing to BM & it drives her absolutely crazy that I won't dedicate any of my precious time or energy to her. She thought since I spent time with SD I had to deal with her. NOPE.

I LOOOOOOVE the plaid outfit! So chic! So unique! Sooooo Je-ne-sais-quoi....How did you get matching plaid shirt, pants and hat may I ask? OH WAIT! Are the boxers plaid too? Ooh I bet they are! You checker-patterned devil you!

"For the love of god; STOP the PITY PARTY!"

Stop using your kids as weapons. Using your 5 year old (not dh's) to emotionally blackmail his oldest half brother (ss18) is NOT right on ANY level and will cause the same kind of emotional anguish you caused to all your older 3 sons, which is why they live with us and not you!

Stop discussing inappropriate things of an adult nature with an 11 and 12 year old.

Stop playing the victim and claiming the "poor me" mentality in everything you do and say.

Stop being so emotionally dependent on your 12 year old son.

Stop shouting and swearing at your 11 and 12 year old during contact, while being a supposed churchgoer and good Christian. You're the biggest hypocrite on the planet and the kids are starting to not look forward to their visits - they only come because of their little half brother.

Your ex has had legal custody of the boys for 9 years, and has been with me nearly as long. GET OVER IT!!

Dh has told me all of your embarrassing secrets of your family and past, so stop acting like a self righteous bitch.

Oh and I know that the reason he left was because you told him you were pregnant and didn't know who the kids father was. So again pulease stop acting like a self righteous bitch, when really you are beyond a piece of scum.

"Did you ever really love him? Or did you love the idea of being married because all your friends were getting married? Do you realise that you set your sons up for failure with your liberal 'life lesson' crap? And why didn't you equate excellent attendance and grades to having a cell phone? And why did you think you had all the answers and fathers are superfluous?"

The world is not all about YOU. You destroy everyone around you. The drama that constantly surrounds you is almost entirely of your doing.

You are a horrible person and a rotten mother. Get out of the house and get a REAL job instead of expecting everyone else to support your lazy ass.

By the way, most people think I am a sweet person and a very good mother. You screwed yourself over twice. First by dumping DH expecting he'd beg to come back. Second by crapping all over the support I could have given.

I really did keep an open mind about you...until you proved to be everything DH said about you and WORSE!

Oh, finally, it has been 15 YEARS since I have been with DH. GET OVER IT. You have found someone to marry and had another baby to coincide with the skids aging out of CS. BE HAPPY. I am over you and your trying to destroy our lives. Move on with yours. Now you just look petty and immature.

I would say, Piss off. God will deal w her. She is soooooo ugly, not because of physical reason but because her insides are so nasty that it shines through and I find her repulsive. 

I would say, Piss off. God will deal w her. She is soooooo ugly, not because of physical reason but because her insides are so nasty that it shines through and I find her repulsive. 

Literally beat her ass! She knows I don't like her. So there's nothing else to say but that.