I really am thinking about ending the relationship. I no longer want the responsibility of three children that aren't mine especially when the BM will not do anything to help mend the bad behaviors.

My Mother's Day sucked. The night needed with my playing and tickling my SD8 who is just like BM pulling the crap out of my hair. She asked to braid my hair and I stupidly said okay. Then right in front of family members at a fire she yanks the crap out of my hair and will not stop under no circumstance. I tried finger peeling her hands off then eventually she did. Of course SO wasn't around to see it so instead of correcting the bad behavior with SD8 the family and I had to spend the last 20 mins convincing SO that his daughter was a little bitch. I told BM that to on the phone later that night when SO was trying to involve her to help their violent behaviors she's like this in school as well. Her mom said I was "demoralizing her" haha okay.... coming from the women who just got out of a relationship with a man into a relationship with a women when she is CATHOLIC and promised to raise her kids catholic instead she is being selfish and experimenting and posting gang pictures with her new lesbian girlfriends blowing smoke.... wicked mature.