19y old SD stormed off to friends house at 3am one morning after her ex bf came over to get his mail...and my DH was "too friendly" with him...this kid lived here for about a year so when he showed up we said Hi...had some small talk...she got PISSED! So she left in the middle of pandemic self isolation and we havent heard from her since except to say she's safe at friends house....So anyways my dh says she msged him and that he'll tell.me what she said when he gets home.from.work...its now been 2 days and he hasnt said anything...So anyways I go look for myself on his FB....Apparently DM picked her up from friends house and told her that she is leaving (bm lives w her lprents at 45y of age lol)...and that SD's granpa has cancer and has 8 mths to live...and that gramma broke her elbow...long story short SD tells DH shes still upset w him...and that She thinks he wants Sons more than daughters(what? )..and that he does things For her but also doesnt( are you fucking kidding me! He lets you Do whatever the F u want!)....aaaanyways....she is moving Back to grandparents house...BM is apparently been going to therapy so "she's Not so Crazy anymore" and she is moving back to Help the grandparents and she also got a Job offer there too....and she wants to get ready to go to college..This is almost 20y old "Childult" who can't even bring up her plates from her room for weeks...let alone Wash them! But anyways!! Fingers Crossed she Does move back there and gets a job and starts school...all she's been doing here is smoke weed...play video games and sleep til 2pm....But Here is soping she finnay Moves Out!!  This hose feels toxic w her here for some reason