lets just pretend the estrangement is about the covid, ill go along with that.  grand kids cant come over, we cant go over there, but they and grandskids can make big charade about dropping off plates of food or gifts doned with masks then RUNNING to car and waving bye bye franticly  as they drive off, don't pay no mind that they just spent an hour at walmart or dollar store picking out Christmas and birthday gifts for grandpa or grandma  so why couldn't they get sick from joe smoe at the dollar store but they get sick from grandparents house, or we get sick at there house, arent there any grandparents at the walmart or the dollar store even if their not related grandparents, i guess the covid only transfers to grandparents that you actually know.  

anywayyyyyy... 

after babysitting them and seeing them all the time unto now, a year later get to see them and we are so honored, help with online elementary play ball at recess in the back yard,  parents wouldn't let them take any snacks/gifts  from our house, but they left a box of snacks gifts for us. 

then someone on here yesterday made me have a bad dream about my DH due to their informative post about enmeshment video and MIL's or SKids, I dreamed that my DH told me he wanted to divorce me and I cried and cried and cried and he didn't care, until in my dream I told him "I'm so sorry that I was so unaware of your unhappiness with me."   I woke up devastated and told my faithful DH right beside me about my dream and he said "I am happy with you and I am not going anywhere and I hope you will never divorce me."  I told him about how we don't deserve the estrangement that the skids and MIl give us but If I was to apologize for anything it would be "I am so sorry that I was so unaware of your unhappiness with me."  I never did anything mean to them and the stuff they accused me of was not true, but they left our life regardless.  They abandoned dh because he would not abandon me. I was good to them for years and I was oblivious to how unhappy they were with me in their life. they were kind to me and tolerated me but they were unhappy and did not tell us so they broke off relationship with DH. and now we don't get to see them or the grandkids.  They tried to be polite and waited until DH would leave me, but he never did.  and we were blindsided by the abandonment because we were oblivious to the unhappiness that they had with me in their life.

no point to this post.