Dear Valued Users,
It's with a heavy heart that we announce the permanent closure of StepTalk.org on August 31st, 2025.
This decision wasn't an easy one. For over twenty years, StepTalk has been a source of support for stepparents around the world! However, over the years, the costs associated with maintaining and upgrading the site to remain secure, meet current standards and maintain availability have become unsustainable.
We are incredibly grateful for your support, contributions and the community you've helped us build. Your engagement has made StepTalk.org a special place and we cherish the memories and connections made here.
We would especially like to thank Aniki for volunteering to be a moderator and for caring so much.
Thank you for being a part of our journey and we wish you all the best.
Sincerely,
Dawn and The StepTalk Team
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Stay safe!
Hey, StepU,
So glad to read that STBXH seems to have settled down! I must caution you, however, to not let your guard down too quickly. My ex, despite giving an outward show of acceptance, a few weeks after my departure, had a few humiliating scenes to demonstrate before finally giving up. He was a control freak and, more than any other factor surrounding our divorce, he hated losing his dominance over me.
Be careful Hon; stay safe! Your DH has always struck me as a narcissist and they HATE rejection.
Thank you GrannyD
I'm aware. I'm being careful.
Furbaby
We have an advanced-age dog so there will be some regular contact, technically STBXH's but nearly deaf & losing vision so staying with me as I WFH f/t and I'm much better able to provide care. STBXH also likely getting a 1-bd apt with no yard. Dog cannot get into my vehicle anymore (no depth perception, can no longer jump that high), but can still get into the low-to-the-ground midlife crisis car. Gets taken to the park since its now too far for the dog to walk, where he walks in the grass & connects with his dog friends. Its the highlight of the dog's day & he needs it.
Hopefully the calm stays and
Hopefully the calm stays and you can get through this divorce will minimal drama!!
I am glad you are finding peace finally!
Fingers crossed that STBXH
Fingers crossed that STBXH maintains the good behavior and acceptance. However, like grannyd, I fear he might hate rejection and try to reassert control. Take care of yourself, darlin'!