Last Friggin' Month of CS
I'm sure it will drag on endlessly. Chef doesn't have a W2 job and works for himself so I send an auto payment from the biz acct directly to Chef's account which in turn generates an auto pymt to NYS CSEU. The HousesHitter will turn 21 in one more month, the last of the 3 ferals.
I have the payment stopping after 1/4/24, the last of which is prorated for the partial week that he is still 20.
As luck would have it, our Obamacare premium will be doubling at the same time so you can't win for losing.
It will still be great though to know the Girhippo will be permanently off the payroll after almost 20 years!
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We have six months to go..
We have six months to go...assuming both skids graduate. Seeing that they are only taking one academic class this year at school (math, because there is no other way to satisfy the requirement, unlike English where you can take "public speaking" as your senior English credit, they should make it. One keeps saying he's "going to college", but I'll believe it when I see it.
Yesss!!!
Yesss!!!
Love it when the ferals and breeders get cut off at age
Id rather pay double insurance (to take care of myself) than have money going out to another woman who might be using it to take care of kids or line her own pockets
The ex fiancé used to waste all kinds of money on those destructive needy spawns then pretend like he couldn't pay for stuff needed around the house.
I would never do domestic violence but I envisioned shoving a stiff steel toe boot into his a$$ for taking money out of our household repairs to fund his child support. Like b*tch you better get a 2nd and 3rd job before you take money out of our household....left him 5 weeks later
I know it well
Chef has always been terrible at money but he was an extreme guilty Daddy spender on his ferals when they were coming to our house for entitlement training sessions.
This was when he was bringing home only $100 a week after taxes, insurance and non arrears CS. I'm glad they PASed out when they did otherwise I would have been flat broke. There were many times when it was getting ridiculous and I didn't know if I could make ends meet on my salary alone because everything he had went to those brats.
Nothing but the best for his ferals on my dime.
He was not on our insurance
past 2010 when Chef moved from his manually laborious W2 concrete job to his first W2 HVAC job. His concrete job had much better benefits as it was a global company. The HVAC job was a small biz with terrible benefits. This was pre-Ocare. And a couple years after the Girhippo FINALLY took a W2 job after wanting to live off of CS and continue to be a permanent SAHM after the divorce. It was a govt job, of all things, as a CPS caseworker, thus gaining free cadillac health insurance.
She agreed to move the ferals to her free cadillac health insurance in exchange for, you guessed it, even MORE CS.
I have 2 more yrs
to go to be on Medicare. I imagine that Chef will need to get his own insurance by then as he is on blood pressure meds. Not sure how that works but he will be only be 57 and for all intensive purposes is my dependent income and tax wise.
Added
I'm pretty sure the Girhippo will kick him out after his free "rent and living expenses" is no longer rolling in. He does have a full time job and odds are he just spends the income on himself.
He wouldn't move in with us because he hates us (thank goodness) but he does have siblings he can move in with. He could be the Animal Torturer's (SD25) roommate although she currently has a boyfriend for now or he could move in with OSS27 Pumpkinhead and his wife who bought a house about a year ago.
Chef would probably say
"BUUUUUTTT we let AWESOMESON stay with us (for about 6 months) before he went into the Air Force."
Chef loves comparing apples with oranges.
The HousesHitter is a druggie and has a violent temper just like Chef. Awesome son paid us rent and was on the B shift so we never saw him he was quiet and did chores around the house as well. Never had to clean up after him.
The HousesHitter most likely does not pay any rent to the Girhippo as our CS is considered room and board payment for him and does not help around the house because she lives in a stye.
Glad you are done
Glad you are done
YAY!!!!!
Yay you & Chef!!!
Now to keep taking that $$ and put away...for trips
Husband and I think about what hes going to do with the "extra" $ when it ends in May 2024