So recently my SD mother has taken my husband back to court for more custody. They have not been in court since 2016 and this started in 2021 she is asking for more time with SD 14 because she feels that she can take her to more sports etc. then we can. The backstory on that is that she has signed her up for pretty much everything under the sun which makes it impossible for us to be able to do all of it considering we have a total of four children and two businesses. At first travel volleyball was a point of contention because we said no because we said realistically we can't make this happen but somehow SD 14 and her mother won that battle so we caved and started doing travel volleyball. Then it turned into wanting to play two consecutive sports during a school season so for example  Volleyball and soccer together while that merged into starting to play for travel volleyball and travel volleyball season and she wanted to also play school basketball. Whenever my husband says no somehow he gets brow beat it until we cave and say yes so in this case we said if you can find rides to your school basketball then fine so her mother stepped up and started taking her to some of the practices but that intern got used against us and the mother started saying well since she is the one taking her to most of the things that she should be there for the majority of the custodial time. Everything we say and do gets used against us and we try to make SD 14 happy but she works closely with her mother even though she loves my husband and her family here she just feels that she can get more at her mothers. My husband had his mediation like his fifth mediation yesterday and the mother is pushing now for more communication which we are on our family wizard and got that set up in September because she has always been so difficult we have not been able to speak to her via phone or text messages we only kept it to email but that was getting too crazy too because of her tone she's always so condescending and terrible so we pushed for our family wizard mainly because she refused to communicate with me so I ignored her for about three years and let my husband and her deal with each other but then she started saying she wanted to communicate with me to which really just means she wants to browbeat me so that I know my place but I've been communicating with her through our family wizard and it's mainly me as the mother and the woman in the household that asks the majority of questions and things that need to be done while my husband is running machinery and running businesses but this is a problem to her too she wants only him to be answering her back as a majority and she wants him to be taking her to all of her things even though she has signed her up for so many things it's unrealistic but that was part of her goal and the mediator basically was like it sounds like to me she has good grades and understands her schedule I don't see a reason and switching household but this was the angle but the mother was taking. She also is now pushing for coparenting counseling between her my husband and SD 14. It seems Ludacris to me that a married man with four children of almost 10 years and two businesses would have to go to count coparenting classes with his baby mom that he was with her year. Help.