So, DH ex, sd14 mother, is pushing to expedigate the trial which means she's aiming to skip the next 2 judge reccomend mediations and go straight to trial to get decision making so that she is abme to pick the one HS we said no to. There are a lot of great private HS we gave as options and we said the only one we couldn't do was the single handed only one her mother pushed for. Her angle is to sign sd14 up for everything and anything that she knows we aren't able to do, which is unrealistic, 2 consecutive sports, 1 travel team, a HS that is over 35 minutes from our house so to and from 2 times a day would be 2 hours in trabel. So, she wants to overwhelm our schedule to basically make it so we can't keep up, all so that she can swoop in and say she can do it which is precisely what she said in the first mediation, we'll I'm able to take her to everything and I'm able to take her to the HS she wants to go to (which I may add is the most expensive in the state as well as her travel sport team ir the most expensive as well) all bc she wants to look like she's the competent parent. DH has had 50% custody of sd14 since she was 1. she clearly wants to interfere with pit life so much and cause chaos we simply said no to one out of about 10 different amazing private schools and her mother is now pushing for sole decision making so she can sent her to this school and make all the decisions. They've always had joint. I'm so frusterated bc DH is a great dad and does so much to make her happy and nothing ever is good enough. To the point he'll drive all over creation and spend all his $ and spend barely any time with the little 3 and it still won't be good enough. I'm not sure what the chances of her winning decision making is but she wants herself to look like the hero parent just bc she overwhelms sd14 schedule and swoops in and claims she can do it all. It's not fair.