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SM and BM hanging out in the afterlife

SeeYouNever's picture

My Brother's FIL lost his wife, my SIL's SM, about a year ago. Today he posted a sad but sweet birthday wish for her and thanking her for the best years of his life. This man has been married 3 or so times and has multiple ex BMs and sets of kids. My SIL is the youngest and was just one of a harem of adult mini wives.

One of his daughter's commented under his sad birthday post to his DECEASED WIFE "I love you daddy!  I know SM is smiling on you and loving you. She's with BM and celebrating the love they share for you, your kids and family"

Barf, can you imagine hanging out with BM on your birthday in the afterlife. Skids can't miss a chance to remind everyone they and their BM were there first and don't you forget it! SM is gone, let go of the freaking competition.

For context and how my SIL's SM was treated at the end of her life: https://www.steptalk.org/blog/seeyounever/my-sils-sm-her-deathbed-276136

 

 

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CLove's picture

WEnt back in timme to last years post you made.

She has no shame - how do you deal?

SeeYouNever's picture

This is my SILs family so my brother is the one who has to deal. I just shake my head from a distance.

Rumplestiltskin's picture

What kind of sins would the poor stepmom have had to commit to be sentenced to an afterlife with BM, celebrating their mutual relationship with DH and the skids.....for ever?!

Elea's picture

DH went on a 3 day-out of state trip to visit Sdiabla24 to satisfy her greedy demands for "alone time." Side note: No matter how massive the amounts of "alone time" the SDiablas's have, it's never enough, because they have an "us" vs. "them" mentality and they have a scarcity mindset.

Any who ... DH comes back from said trip and tells me, with a straight face, that BM invited us to come visit her and stay at her house. Mind you, this is a BM that has done everything in her power to sabotage, bad-mouth, impose herself and control DH's relationship with SDiablas as well as my relationship with DH and SD's.

DH presents this to me as if BM is offering some kind of gift. I did not fly into a full on rage *pat myself on the back* but I was incredulous. I said to DH, "I cannot think of anything I would rather do less than visit BM." He looked a little taken aback and then recognition of reality dawned back onto his face.

Really babe??? You thought for 1 second that playing blended family with crazy pants was going to work? I understand BM being that stupid and manipulative but I am disappointed he would give it even a moment of consideration.

SeeYouNever's picture

I would have told him to get in the car ASAP because he was obviously having a stroke lol

Rags's picture

Not likely.  In most cases the BM and the SM or BioDad and StepDad will not be spending the afterlife in the same places.

As liquids flow down hill, the universal laws of physics and all, my snarky eternal mischief will be to pee off of the edge of the clouds as invariably it will land on the Spermidiot's head eventually.  Hopefully the supreme being has a sense of humor.

Diablo

Rags's picture

How patently evil does a SKid have to be to wish this on an SM?

"I love you daddy!  I know SM is smiling on you and loving you. She's with BM and celebrating the love they share for you, your kids and family"

Too bad daddy did not point out that SD's BM and SM will not be spending eternity in the same place.

SeeYouNever's picture

For the record this step "kid" is a 50-something woman. Obviously she didn't write "BM", I changed that for clarity.  She actually wrote "Mommy."

Rags's picture

Bad

Nauseating for sure.

Coming from a 50yo.

ImperfectlyPerfect's picture

Yuck. My ears ring when I hear SKID state "Dadddeeee." All DH hears is a little innocent boy that is trying to make his way in the world. What I see is a overweight balding adult male hoping he can get some spare change from his pops. 

hereiam's picture

I will not be hanging out with BM in the afterlife, as we will be in two totally different places.

Stepdrama2020's picture

I didnt realize that even in the afterlife the SM has to still sister wife it.

This SD is bat shit evil. Still getting her digs in . 

Dang I hope the ghost of SM haunts her .

Rumplestiltskin's picture

This post reminds me, i've been seeing more and more pics that Demi Moore has had taken of her and Bruce Willis. It's likely that he has been declining mentally for years, and it seems Demi has used that to slide back into his daily life. The Facebookers were commenting things like "You go girl! Everybody (meaning Bruce's current wife) needs to check their egos at the door." Like, wtf. Why can't a stepmom have an ego, when everyone else involved sure can?! Ashton has moved on, and Demi's posting pics of herself grinning, sitting on poor Bruce's lap. I wonder if he would be ok with all this if he didn't have brain damage.