My BS turns 18 on Wed. (WOOHOO!!!!)
Anyway I got that out of the way. This past Wed. I told him that I wanted him to clean his room up. It was utterly discusting (sp). I told him that he had until Sun. night to have it done, OR I was going to do it for him. And he wouldn't be happy about that. Well, Sun night came ane he still hadn't done anything in his room. I went up to clean his room and I had to put on 2 pair of gloves, (yes I said 2 pair). I ended up throwing out 3 bags of garbage. There was alot of food, wrappers, empty Kodak (chew) cans, acutally 5 of them. I found 3-4 bottles and cans of chew spit... so gross :sick: I cleaned out his closet, and when I first opened it it smelled like cum, for lack of a better word. I found 3 used condoms,and they were still "wet". And a c**k ring :sick: ewww!!
I can understand that this all seems a little "normal" for boys, but some of the other things I found in his room are definately NOT NORMAL!! I found a pink vibrator, girls underwear, nylons, tampons.
I threw EVERYTHING away. He is also pissed that I found his secret stash of stolen stuff. He stole some of his sisters things, my DH good knife, some more of the stuff for my company, and just a bunch of other stuff that I have no idea where he would have even gotten it.

I found out that BS , who was supposed to spend the night at grannys house, didnt. When my granny took off for the night to play cards, he left. She never knew he was gone, and never told me. When she found out. He walked into her house this morning at 11:30, and she never questioned him, I guess (from what my BD told me) that he said he was coming from my house.
I asked her about it, and told her to send him home to me when he woke up. Needless to say, her and I got into a HUGE fight on the phone. I put it on speaker phone and my DH and BD heard all of it.
She pretty much told me to leave him alone and not to yell at him, because he's almost 18 and someday I will want him back home.
I was told " you're acting just like your mother!!" well, I turned around and told her "Well, she acts just like YOU!!!"
She got pissed and told me I was acting so childish. and that I needed to grow up LOL I told her that he is my son and I will raise him the way I see fit, and if she doesnt like it then butt out!

Just needed to vent about granny and know if my son is "freaky" or if I'm just nuts.