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Poor BM. She's such a dumb A**

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Submitted by step off already on Thu, 02/14/2013 - 5:32pm

So, BM received her copy of the mediator's report yesterday afternoon (while she was sitting on her couch, smoking pot and waiting for her 5 hour work week to begin).

The report makes her look very bad and is totally in DH's favor. So what does she do? She tries to get DH angry by "accidentally" sending him texts meant for another man. (Yes, if you've read my previous posts, she is in a relationship with a woman, but she is a notorious cheater and liar, so she always often has a new fling here and there).

She's such an idiot though. She doesn't realize that she sent DH both the text she recieved from the man along with the her response that she intended to "accidentally" send to DH.

first text:

It was so nice to meet your son. He is cute. I enjoyed talking to you this weekend. You make me smile again.

Second text (in her illiterate, 14 yo writing):

You mak me smile too. My sons approval is really important to me and so far ur doing good.

third text:

sorry that wasn't meant for you

LOL you dumb BIA! Your "accidental" texts only work when you ONLY send your portion of the conversation.

DH just ignores her and doesn't care in the least about the dumb whore. She's so PATHETIC!

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Submitted by sandy1234 on Thu, 02/14/2013 - 5:45pm

I second that.

Hey, at least you got the mediator's approval! Congrats you guys. So what does that mean for your case? What do you expect to gain as the outcome?

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Submitted by step off already on Thu, 02/14/2013 - 5:52pm

Well, we already have primary custody and she has every other weekend. She is not requesting any additional time. Hubby is not asking for any changes other than she stop having SS13 sleep in bed with her, stop smoking pot during his visits, take him to his events/fundraisers/basketball games, etc. during her parenting time. He is losing out on these now that mommy decided to come back after 7 years and be a "mommy" again. She's pretty much stopped with the expensive outings during her visits now and all they do is sit and play video games - or actually he plays video games with his friends online.

DH is opposed to the two weeks on/off in the summer, but the mediator said that that isn't even up for discussion yet that we need to take baby steps with this woman. DH has always approached mediation saying he wants her to be a mom to his son, he needs a mom, he loves her, idealizes her and on and on. But that he shouldn't suffer for her choices.

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Submitted by bearcub25 on Fri, 02/15/2013 - 8:09am

Good luck in forcing her to parent or take him to activities. Our BM was told to do this, even in the court order. She would get there and then say one of the kids was sick, hurt or she was sick and they would leave or even talk the kids into not going.

DSO just keeps kids when they have an activity and does it himself.

Our BM is good about just refusing to do the things she should do, then everyone has to step up and cover her ass so the skids don't get screwed out of missing stuff.

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Submitted by step off already on Fri, 02/15/2013 - 11:30am

Last time (4 months ago), the judge actually reduced her every other weekends down to every other Saturday-Sunday. Then the judge said that they should agree to activities that overlap on each other's time. Then he assigned them both to go to a Kids First class for divorcing parents in conflict.

My interpretation was that the judge was trying to get them to move towards working things out on their own and coming to an agreement on what's best for the kid. I think BM's interpretation was that the judge gave her the power to decide what the kid can do. Every offer or suggestion my DH makes to her, she just says no.

So now, here we are again. For my own personal satisfaction, I'd love to see the judge reduce her time again, but we'll see. We have a new judge now, who is new to the bench and is a 38 year old woman, so it will be interesting to see how she perceives it.

I think if there is an order that BM must take SS13 to his events then she will because (in her words) she's afraid of going to jail.

This woman is an idiot though. The restraining order DH has against her allows her to call Monday and Wed night at 7 pm to talk to her son. She goes to the police station to make those calls and gets an incident report for each call. Sometimes the report will state that my husband made them hang up early. And sometimes the report will state that no one answered the phone. In court last time, she said, "I'm tired of going to the police station, just so I can talk to my son". The judge asked, "ma'am, how does going to the police station get you any closer to speaking with your son?" then he phrased it another way, because she just didn't get it. then he said, "Exactly. You are wasting everyone's time by going to the police station twice a week to file a report".