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The 2 little pigs are about to make me blow this house down. Afer I vomit

TickedOff's picture

Submitted by TickedOff on Thu, 03/14/2013 - 9:32am

You would think that at 15 and 17 you would know better than this shit. After chewing them out about being so filthy they went and cleaned their rooms. I went to check because I am a neat freak. If you have a soft stomach you may not want to continue reading.
SD 17s room smelled like donkey ass on a hot day. I do not go into these rooms often because it makes me itchy but I wanted to make sure every little thing was clean. There were maggots in her trash can crawling out of some sushi. I told her to take that bag out and when she picked it up brown liquid started to spill from the bottom and there was a nasty pad sticking to the bottom as well. I left that room before vomiting. I went into SD14s room where there is piles of dirty laundry. I yelled at her to come finished cleaning this room and on the way out I tripped and fell and some dirty stained underwear almost landed by my face. The loft upstairs is crawling with ants. I cleaned their bathroom just the other day when I went to check their were pubes all over one of the sinks. I asked them who did that shit and SD17 said I shave over the sink so I won't clog the bathtub. All I could think was???????? Huh. And I don't even want to know how she is able to shave her pubs over the sink. These have got to be the most vilest disgusting girls on the planet. That is precisely why I never go upstairs. I told DH from now on he will inspect upstairs and every time it is dirty it will be cleaned or there will be no allowance no car and no phones.
I am still sick to my stomach. Have any of you had any moments of disgust like this with your skids or do I really have the filthiest ones on the planet.

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RedWingsFan's picture

Submitted by RedWingsFan on Thu, 03/14/2013 - 10:10am

My God that's disgusting! WHY on earth is their father allowing them to disrespect your home that way?

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Submitted by fedup13 on Thu, 03/14/2013 - 11:29pm

Yes, very disgusting, the maggots and the pad!!! YUCK!!!! And I thought the same thing redwings, WHY is this Dad letting them live like that in his home. SHOOOOOOOOWEEEEEE!!! Nasty.

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Submitted by B22S22 on Thu, 03/14/2013 - 10:19am

I dealt with this, although not to the extent of the NASTINESS you just described. But food in rooms is a NO NO in this house and my DH never seemed to be able to hold HIS kids to it (although he'd be all over MINE). I finally got soooooo sick of food stuck in the carpeting, soda spilled all over the desk/computer/TV/wall/bed/whatever, wrappers everywhere that I told DH that HE would be in charge of cleaning it if he couldn't get his two little cavemen (late teens) to stop taking food/drinks up there.

See, it was "OK" when I was the one cleaning it, regardless how much I bitched. All my DH would do is yell, "Well, what the hell do you want ME to do about it?" Once I made him clean up the filth because SS's couldn't be bothered, it became a priority for him to stop them from taking food/drinks upstairs.

I'd tell your DH he needs to get right up there with them and clean away.

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Submitted by Elizabeth on Thu, 03/14/2013 - 10:22am

My SD was nearly that bad. I say was, she probably still is but she no longer lives with us. Poop and pee splashed onto the lid of the toilet. Used pads and tampons and bloody underwear stuffed everywhere in her bedroom. She seriously did not change her sheets for more than two years and they were brown in the center.

The kicker was when I started smelling something really nasty when I walked up the stairs. Like hit you in the face nasty. SD's bedroom was the one farthest from the stairs and the door was closed. Go into there and what do I find? DH made her take out the garbage bags and she missed the trash man and she shoved them in her closet and left them there for TWO WEEKS in the summer. They were rancid, I was lived, DH and SD just shrugged it off.

It made me sick to my stomach to walk into SD's bedroom when you combined her funky BO (she refused to use soap when showering) with the trash smell that lingered (along with the unsanitary sanitary items) for years, even after she moved out. When I cleaned that room before I moved, I offered my mom (who was helping me) gloves.

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Submitted by newbiestepmom25 on Thu, 03/14/2013 - 10:38am

:jawdrop: and :sick: If I were you I would still be throwing up. Lucky my live in SS is only 5 and other than the booty fingers is isn't 2 messy.

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Submitted by PeanutandSons on Thu, 03/14/2013 - 10:58am

How did her dad react to this situation?

Mine would have blamed me for neglecting the poor child.

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Submitted by Bojangles on Thu, 03/14/2013 - 5:41pm

OK I think the maggots in hair trumps the OP. This is one of the most disgusting things I have ever heard.

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Submitted by hereiam on Thu, 03/14/2013 - 10:50am

Ok, I am going to have to stop reading this thread. Although, if I throw up all over my desk, surely they will send me home?

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Submitted by dallas_girl on Thu, 03/14/2013 - 11:22am

My SDs don't wipe themselves after going #2 and then they toss their poo stained underwear into the laundry expecting us to wash them along with our clothes. I don't tell DH that I do this, but I simply throw the underwear away, or I put it back in their drawers dirty. I don't want their poo all over our clothes in the same washer. They've been reminded multiple times about wiping themselves and making sure to use wet wipes. Someday they may learn, or maybe not. Not my problem. }:)

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Submitted by fedup13 on Thu, 03/14/2013 - 11:26am

I have started referring to skid as skid all the time due to his constant poop filled pants. He craps himself daily, most usually multiple times per day. He does this out of defiance. DH used to put them in my bathtub and rinse them out half way and leave them there. Ummm...no. Throw those nasty things away, not in my trashcan either, in a bag, put outside.

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Submitted by mommabear on Thu, 03/14/2013 - 4:08pm

Oh dear God, that is vile and repulsive. I am a neat freak as well, but I do understand that not everyone is as concerned with cleanliness as I am; however, I just can not comprehend how anyone can live in such filth. It's one thing to be a clutter bug, but entirely different to be filthy. This is not near as bad as what you have to deal with, but my SS6 REFUSES to wipe his ass after he poops. I got sick and damn tired of doing laundry and having to do an entire load dedicated solely to his underwear.. I wasn't about to throw that nastiness into a load of everyone elses clothes.. HECK NO!!! And stepper's, I'm not talking about your every day skidmarks that most young ones leave behind.. I'm talking about CHUNKS OF SHIT, actual TURDS, in this kids underwear.. so I had a talk with him about it and I told him if he needed help wiping his bottom, his dad or I would not be mad at him and we would be willing to help him.. until he was comfortable doing it himself. I don't understand it.. he will literally go ALL DAY LONG with that filth in his pants! My husband is just as disgusted as I am, and talked with him and reiterated what I had told him about helping him out.. he just said, "OK.." and scampered off to play. That was 6 months ago.. nothing has changed. So now I REFUSE to do his laundry.. well, his underwear anyway. I wont even separate his laundry now because too many times I have mindlessly grabbed a pair of undies to throw into the proper pile, only to grab dookie.. BLECK! If anyone is going to touch that, it's going to be him.. and guess what else.. I took him into the laundry room and I taught him how to use the washer and dryer, and told him that until he could show me clean undies, he was going to have to wash his own (and BTW, BM agreed with me on this and thought it was a "GREAT" idea.. wow!) I never expect him to use it and start a load completely on his own.. I always supervise and gently remind him how to go about each step of the process.. and he does a great job.. and he LOVES helping! So what I had planned as a punishment turned out to be a treat for the kid.. lol.. I just pray that it hasn't encouraged him to poop in his pants on purpose, just so he can help me do the laundry!

Anyway, TickedOff, I feel for you, babe.. I really, really do! I think.. no wait, I KNOW.. I would be a hyperventilating, panic-attack having fool if I had that kind of a mess in my home. Oh geez.. it's making my tummy turn over just thinking about it.. :sick:

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Submitted by Carley on Thu, 03/14/2013 - 11:23pm

Teenagers are horrible, some awful stuff I can't even find the words to describe. God the things they do sometimes.

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Submitted by sunbeam0901 on Fri, 03/15/2013 - 1:06am

Skids are just so... gross.

SD19 lived with us far about a year. She has (at nearly 20 yrs of age) a problem with bedwetting and just basic hygiene. She rarely showered, didn't use deodorant, left her urine soaked clothing lying around the bathroom, and would leave bloody ass prints on the toilet seat and not clean it up. One of the weirdest things I found was discovered in a seldom used closet in the hallway between her room and the bathroom. Crammed into a corner and hidden by some linens, I found a HUGE wad of hair and an open jar of peanut butter. The hair wad was so big, I mistook it for DD10's old Halloween wig. Apparently SD19 gave herself a haircut and instead of throwing out the clippings, she stuffed them in the closet. I'm not sure what purpose the peanut butter served...

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Submitted by Shieldmaiden on Tue, 10/18/2022 - 11:05am

I would have gone postal if I saw that sh&%. How do you avoid spraying them down with Lysol when they sit down at the dinner table?  Again, I would create a Dexter Morgan kill room (ie: line their rooms in plastic sheeting) and lock them out once they turn 18. 

Gawd. That is horrendous. I am so sorry you have to live with that.