yes thats the correct term(:

When i was 4months i went to the e.r due to major cramps and their they told me he had a condition i forgot the name of it but anyhow his skin did not close all the way on his belly button area so his orgins were out, from birth they would've done surgery to close it up.
The second time i rushed to the e.ragain from cramps but i also had bleeding, thats when they gave me the news. i was in shock so didnt listen to much i told them to tell my fiance because i was to emotional but from what i did hear, he had lack of oxegyn due to his codition.

And yes sadly people do view things as in the way you said,i mean my family looked at him like he was gonna be a fuck up like my two childrens dad once they found out, so i kinda expected his to feel the same way but they completely went off left field! even after the fact i was fiance they got worse. they ignore me half the time, act so freakin rude, i dnt get invited they expect him to go alone. and then he gets mad at me that im the one not accepting them..well why would i being treated like that..And as of SS yea alot of the times i feel like im directing it towards him which makes me feel bad but he does things to just get under my skin, i mean correct me if im wrong but no kid should try to compete against an adult and no SM should feel like her SK is making a competion. he gets treated like royalty when he comes bcus its only 2 days while my two get the discipline,chores (mind you their only 2 and 3, and hardly get acknowledge by their good things except from me. -.- and no my fiance just told me because SS is not use to sleepng alone he gonna sleep with us hes freaking 6, my kids arent even aloud to and they cry !!ughhh sorry im rambling lol

im looking into counseling so i can start going i think i really need it !!! i think it will help get alot of closure and mabeye even help with my issues of SS. ok thank you(: this is whole stepmom and crazy stuff is new to me it'd help to have someone to talk to and can understand me.