She's beautiful and DH and I are ecstatic.

Our first visitors were my dd12, DS10 and ds9 escorted by their father. I loved seeing DS9 and dd12 hold and love on the baby. Ds10 is not big on changed ( he's on the autism spectrum and needs to be eased into things) but still he came and used his manners and I enjoyed them being here.

After they left, DH felt guilty and thought he should go get SS13 and bring him to see the baby. He called him and SS's first question was "do you love the baby more than me". I could hear dh's end of the conversation and SS didn't want to come. I hear DH say "don't be a jerk to me". Then they wrapped up the call.

I let DH know that he should discuss ss's visit with sil (since that's where he was) and see if she could bring him, rather than trying to figure it out w SS.

When fil showed up at the hospital, DH shared ss's reaction with fil. Fil said that the kid was being a jerk, making it all about him, just like he did at our wedding (pouted the entire time and even cried-less than a year ago).

Anywhoo... Happy SS is off to BM's for the next two weeks do I don't have to deal with him. I'm sure BM will help solidify dll his fears and we'll get to deal with it when he returns. Luck for me mil already offered to take SS off my hands once baby arrived so he'll be out of my hair. YES PLEASE!