yuck talking shit about dh to skids
God I hate this woman. Who the hell tells their kids that since daddy is not paying cs that she can't feed them! Really!? You get food stamps and you can't feed your kids! What the hell!
Ss16 put in an application at sonic so he can buy his own food so his mom doesn't gave to worry about it. OMG.
IM LIVID RIGHT NOW.
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What kind of mother let's her
:jawdrop:
What kind of mother let's her kid think she's so broke she can't feed them. Kid feels so bad he's getting a job to pay for food :sick:
What did she do with her SNAP funds to purchase food? I wonder if she let somebody else use her card and then that person gave her cash. Even so, there is no excuse to tell kids it's all Daddy's fault. She has SNAP and if she needed extra food (because she unwisely budgeted her food funds poorly such as high priced foods thus running out quickly or a ton of junk) she could have found a local food source (churches have food banks for one or can lead her to the ones that do).
I suppose driving over there and slapping her lying PASing face off is out of the question though }:)
It'll be ok. DH can sit the kids down next visit and explain and reassure them that if they really don't have food and are hungry at any time they can call him and he'll pick the kids up for a meal.
But on the other hand. Don't discourage SS from perhaps working part time a few hours on like weekends. It will help SS start a savings account and teach him some responsibility . It also shows he's a good kid determined to work hard and find solutions instead of hold his head and why 'me poor, what will I do'. My own son (DS26 now) started working in high school. He worked evenings and weekends. He kept right on working and taking on more hours the summer of graduation and he bought himself a brand new vehicle at age 19.
Oh no we encouraged him to
Oh no we encouraged him to try to get the job. It will be great for him.
I'm just so mad at her right now. She refuses to work she has no rent or utilities her aunt pays it. Then she gets food stamps. Now dh is not paying cs but it will start back up next week and he will pay extra til it is caught up.
But why in the world would you do that to your kid! Oh I know to make their dad look like a dead beat
My exH is ordered to pay cs
My exH is ordered to pay cs because he helped bring our BD into the world so now he has a responsibility to help provide for her. When he fails to do so, it really pisses me off, but I don't go crying to my SD about it. I simply call cs enforcement and they handle it. Then when the ex is paying cs+half of the arrears, he gets pissed at me and I'm like, "I didn't make you go 6 months without paying child support". And I have no sympathy for him whatsoever. If he didn't want to support a child, he should have kept his lil thing in his pants. I work and make decent money, so it's not like were going to starve to death in the street if he misses a few payments.
I think you may not know the
I think you may not know the whole story. Dh is not paying his cs b/c he lost his job. He was paying every week with out fail for 10 years. He has only been without work for less then 3 months and even then he paid a couple if weeks when we had it. He has a job now and cs knows and its all taken care of. He will pay extra til it us paid up. Dh never just chose not to pay!
I work my tail off too to provide for my kids and never received cs but my ex is a true dead beat. My dh is not.
Is she selling her benefits
Is she selling her benefits or something?
I had to temporarily go on food stamps when I had my DS because I was in college and his father bailed. I've always been a big couponer and still did it when I was on food stamps. But even if I didn't use coupons, I almost ALWAYS had benefits left at the end of each month.
I remember many times wishing that food stamps would cover diapers and toilet paper rather than soda and candy!