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Finally the trouble making little bitch is out of my life

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Submitted by chickadee1444 on Thu, 08/22/2013 - 10:00am

I have not posted for a long time , so I thought I would update..I took husbands daughter to court and now there is a peace bond on her.Here in Canada they are not easy to get.The JP who interviewed me was on my side..the judge was great..the twit actually said to the judge" I don't know why I'm here Your Honour " chickadee shakes her head at studidity " she is not allowed within 100 meters of me..if I enter a store, she must leave..Her father finally got a backbone and was in the courtoom ( for me)..he told her off good and now she doesn't even speak to him..sad that she does not realize that she has a problem..
Husband of course wants me back..I have an apt..we are starting marriage councelling next week, but seriously, I don't think it will work.I just can't forgive him for the way his family and him treated me.As you who followed my blogs, I left the womens shelter and put my things in storage.I now have a car and my own mony.He is boohooing and begging...when I needed him the most he was not there for me..he took the little 2 faced bitches side..you all told me to leave..but I am having a hard time being firm with him..he doesn't get why I cant forgive and forget...feeling stronger every day!

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Submitted by hereiam on Thu, 08/22/2013 - 10:12am

Stay strong and on your own. Eventually, 2 faced bitch will want something from him, then what? Will he stay firm with her?

Like you said, he was not there for you when you needed him the most. Now you don't need him so much, but he needs you. You've done the hard part on your own. Keep going.

Counseling if fine, it might help you get past some of the resentment so you will feel freer, but it doesn't mean you have to take him back.

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Thu, 08/22/2013 - 10:40am

I agree with the others. You have come out on top past the hardest parts. Believe in yourself and that you are worth so much more than the crap they do to you! ((hugs))

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Submitted by chickadee1444 on Thu, 08/22/2013 - 11:13am

Thank you for your comments..the peace bond is only for a year..what happens after that..I worry about it..she won't stay mad at daddy forever...she wants the house and everything her dad owns.She had a key to our house,came in while he was out and took his satelite receiver for the TV she paid for but forgot daddy was paying for her new TV as a trade-off..her and her daughter have beem shit talking me at the bar where they work..shows you what kind of people the are..gotta stay strong !!

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Submitted by chickadee1444 on Fri, 08/30/2013 - 10:15pm

Thank you for believing in me..I went to counceling..councelors says he thinks we have a good chance at recovering what we had..I thought so too until tonight..(an hour ago)..hubbys birthday today..we went to an auction in the morning, out to lunch together,got some groceries, stopped at a a house auction, bought him gifts,got a birthday cake..no calls from his son or daughter,23 yr old grandadughter, 20 year old granddaughter,(14 yr old grandson is not allowed to come around) just me and him,,my kids are still not over what happened..lit the candles and a friend joined in singing happy birthday.I felt so sad for him.
At 9:45 pm..his 20 year old granddaughter came through the door..no knocking..just walked into the livingroom.,gave him a card( with stuff written about him still being family) and bamboo plant. I know he told her to say hi..so she said" hi Dee " I was so happy to here that I came into the room and was going to thank her for being so nice..first thing she does is..puts her hand up to my face and says" don't start with me Dee" I say "what are you talking about" " I didn't come her to start shit with you.So i get upset and tell her to leave and next time knock on the door when you come to our house..( I was yelling )she yells at me again..says "this is her grandfathers house" I say " it is our house and stop listening to her mother.."you took my mother to court".."you mother assaulted me" she is as dumb as her mother..grandpa punches the wall..all he says in my defence to her is" this is the matrimonial home" and granddaughter leaves..I start to pack..he is ranting and raving about how he is not responsible for what his family says or does...my head is pounding and I'm beside myself with sadness for him and the shitty family he has..how can one woman( his daughter)have this much control over the whole family??? I am lost again..oh..just read the card grandadughter gave him where she calls him "old Man"..how disrepectful is that??

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Submitted by chickadee1444 on Sat, 08/31/2013 - 2:12pm

Thank you for your kind words..I will stick around..this site has helped me a lot..it would please me to help anyone else in my situation..I'm still not "there" but working on it Smile

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Submitted by thinkthrice on Thu, 08/22/2013 - 12:36pm

Stay away. . .blood is thicker than water and things will NEVER get better. Take it from me--10 years to life!