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Submitted by newtothis03 on Sat, 10/05/2013 - 7:58am

I honestly have no clue what BM is up to. The last three weeks or so she has been overly nice. DH and I both find it odd-myself more than him I think. She'll randomly text both of us (multiple convo) to see how we are and pics of SD, ask us about our family, has even brought up when we were going to start trying. WEIRD and equal red flag to me. DH just ignores her but it makes me a little uneasy. I mean she has been the b*tch from hell for two years and has now had a sudden change of heart--not likely or maybe I've become cynical. Anyway, last night was like every other night. DH and I were eating dinner and then BM starts sending him pics of him and SD from the day she was born. She didn't send a message, just the pics. For one, we didn't even know she had them, and two had no clue why she randomly sent them. DH was majority confused, as did I. Well later she asked if we would like to FaceTime with SD, so we did. DH decided not to bring up the pics but act like she never sent them. Well FaceTime wasn't with SD....it was with SD AND BM...wth. DH and I are both confused at this point...then BM proceeds to ask us for a picture. Of what you may ask...of me and DH. Said she wanted one for her house. DH looked at me and ignored her (if you can tell, this is his way of dealing with her) and ended the conversation. We told SD goodnight and both tried to figure out what was going on.I mean, is that not weird to anyone but me. I'm civil with the crazy woman for the sake of SD but I am by no means putting pictures of her up around my house. And I can't see her doing that either.

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Submitted by newtothis03 on Sat, 10/05/2013 - 8:26am

She is actually the one that asked US when we were going to start trying to have one. We never answered her.

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Submitted by newtothis03 on Sun, 10/06/2013 - 10:07am

We don't keep up with her dating life but I think she may be single. And I agree. I think she is trying to stir up some kind of reaction and emotion. BM and DH were never together. He would call her up when he was going thru a dry spell. He was honest with her when she told him she was pregnant. He wanted them to be friends for the baby's sake (if it was his) but he had no feelings for her and was dating someone (me). So all the random pics did was freak DH out. We have pics of SD from the day she was born and have made her a small photo album. DH wasn't even aware she had pics of him so it made him a tad uncomfortable. As far as her wanting pics of us....that kinda creeps me out. I don't know any BM's that want to put pics of their baby-daddy and other woman up in their house.

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Submitted by newtothis03 on Wed, 10/09/2013 - 7:48pm

Far from friends. I've always tried being civil with her. She has just started this "nice routine" the last three or four weeks. Went and picked SD up on Monday because DH had some business to take care of, she didn't have SD ready and she wanted me to just hang out for an hour or so. Not happening. As I said I am civil with her but have not forgotten all the crap she has put us thru (tried to have charges brought against DH for example)and keep all conversations strictly regarding SD. I'm not sure what is going thru her mind.

She had told DH she was taking birth control (which it's just as much his fault for not wearing protection) but turned out she lied. And I agree, if you're sexually active, especially with multiple ppl, it's only smart to protect yourself