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Submitted by IAMGOOD on Fri, 11/22/2013 - 10:01am

I have until Sunday night now with no step-son in the house. So happy!!!
My husband want him to move out now. We will see if he follows through.

Question: What happens if mom refuses to take him full-time?

Question: What if the kid begs and cries to stay?

It has been bad for over 3 years now and a change needs to happen so SS is out of being in the "middle" of a bad co-parenting situation. If he moves in with her he doesn't have to reassure her he hates me and hates our family and hates our house. He can live there, and his wishes are granted!!!!

I thought about it and the only way he will stop his behavior is if this is done. THEN, in a couple months if he wants back our counselor said not without the two parents attending family counseling with him.

I so want him out. part of me feels sad doing this but I really really got hit hard on this last act and it affected me health wise and I really feel unsafe with him coming back into the house.

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Submitted by hereiam on Fri, 11/22/2013 - 10:51am

If BM refuses to take him, your DH HAS to do something about his behavior.

If kid begs to stay, tough. He should have thought about that a long time ago instead of wasting so much energy being an asshole to you.

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Submitted by IAMGOOD on Fri, 11/22/2013 - 11:47am

Thank you. I was thinking that too. And this has been an effort to try to push me out. Can you imagine a grown adult in her own home paying the bills and raising kids and this A-hole trying to push me out. He is getting backing from someone else on this too.