Outa the mouth of babes.
SD7- "You got your hair cut?"
Me- "Yea."
SD- "It's not all..." (Makes hands to show curly & flowing down to waist.)
Me- "Um. Yeah. I got a lot cut."
SD- "My mom is going to not believe it. She always goes on and on about your hair."
Me- "Ok."
SD- "My step dad tells her to stop. Says she is obsessed with you. So she doesn't tell him about you anymore just /brother/ & I."
Outa the mouth of babes. Thanks for trying to keep her in check "step dad". Good luck with that slice of crazy.
Have your stepkids outed things bio mom thinks or says about you?
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Yep been there with my dd.
Yep been there with my dd.
My dd looks just like me AMD from the day she was born people I didn't even know would comment on how much she looked like me. I would run into dd friends that I never met and the say ulyou much be dd mom she looks just like you. These are strangers never met me.
Then Bm will constently tell anyone and everyone how much dd doednt look like Snd wanted a pic of her bio dad. She would day thi often that ss18 got do annoyed with her and told her to shut up.
Ss18 told me that 'you know how much is she will try to convrnce anyone the sky is green when it'd blue. she can't stop. And no one believed her that all think she nuts for even thinking dd looks nothing like you. Lol yep that be my Bm.
EXACTLY!
EXACTLY!
SS7 doesn't reveal things BM
SS7 doesn't reveal things BM says but he constantly spews with stuff that doesn't but her or her husband in a good light. All the MOTY things she tries to convince us of; well he tells the truth so we know she's just a lazy ass POS.
Yeah, my SD6 once told me
Yeah, my SD6 once told me that her mom said 'you don't let me talk to my Dad whenever I want to' (as in phone calls - I actually asked SO just to speak to kids on phone rather than her - unless there was something important to discuss). My reply was, 'Don't be so silly, if you ever want to talk to your dad, tell your mom I said you can speak to him any time and if you ever want to speak to me too, and I'm with your dad at the time, you can - we love to talk to you'. A few weeks later, SD tried to call her dad off her mom's phone, without her mom's say-so. SD and BM (both totally oblivious) left a voicemail on SO's phone, of SD shouting 'I'm not ringing daddy I swear' and BM screaming 'Give that to me NOW!' But apparently I'm the one who stops the calls...
The one I really remember as
The one I really remember as funny was after we had got married (without letting skids or BM know) and then sent the medical coverage cards to BM (my coverage).
SD told us that BM got upset when she saw those cards and said, "misSTEP DH'S LAST NAME?!?!?!!" Little SD acting out how her mom acted was too much for me. I had to go into my bedroom and bury my head in the pillow so they wouldn't hear me laughing about it!
One of her biggest resentments was that DH had never married her even when she had two "OOPS" babies. She must have felt like the skids would bind him to her as much as a ring would. HA!! They DID....but only until they hit majority!
That's funny! We live in an
That's funny! We live in an insanely small town... I went to the store a week or so after our wedding, the clerk, whom I didn't know says "You married /DH/ last week right?" I said "Yes, do you know /DH/?" Figuring he was in there talking, he knows everyone! She says, "Yes but that's not who told me. Bio mom was in here that night, couldn't talk, crying saying he was marrying you right that moment." I just nodded and couldn't get to my car fast enough for some unsympathetic belly laughs.
Years later, BM got pregnant
Years later, BM got pregnant and married and swore the skids to secrecy about it. I am not sure why except that we didn't tell HER before we got married. But I really don't know why SHE would hide HER events.
I remember seeing my DH get off the phone and raise his arms like he had just won the marathon. He said, "I am FREE!" and told me my MIL just told him about her getting married and being preggo again. We did a little happy jig in the middle of the living room!!
That's hilarious - my DH's ex
That's hilarious - my DH's ex also resented that he never married her and that we went on what was supposed to be "their family vacation" to Disney World. Give it a rest!!!!
The stuff that SS has told me, still makes me cringe. Especially about him not being allowed to love me... That was years ago, but it still stings every time I remember it...
Yes!!! DH takes time off
Yes!!! DH takes time off regularly now. He said when they were married he went 15 months without taking a single day off. 7 days a week. It's on custody evals. Her quoted "he never took the time off with me that he does with her". That's right. He do:) haha.