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Submitted by snowdrop on Wed, 01/29/2014 - 10:25am

I just had a nightmare that bm was trying to get visitation with my dog!!!
what an awful dream, I'm still shaken by it! we're in court with her currently re CS. I guess i'm more worried about it than I thought, given that i'm dreaming that she's trying to get my furbaby. it's bad enough to have to send skids there, let alone him!

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Submitted by snowdrop on Wed, 01/29/2014 - 10:47am

lol thanks! I know right! I cuddled with him for a bit before I got out of bed. My baby! The dream seemed so real, I was thinking "but she never even pet him before, how could she do this!" BM has often left me thinking "how could she." I would fight with everything I had if she ever tried to hurt my dog or go after him. Seriously, everything. Wish I could do the same for skids, and do more something to get her out of our lives.

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Submitted by Shaman29 on Wed, 01/29/2014 - 10:55am

When H was battling custody, I had nightmares that Uberskank, the skid and Uberskank's other two children were going to move in with us.

Excuse me while I go hurl.

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Submitted by snowdrop on Wed, 01/29/2014 - 10:58am

my friend in real life actually let her sd's bm and bm's child move in with them for a couple weeks. it was a crazy story, I Coudnt believe she did that, it is most people's worst nightmare! I guess they were homeless and since's bm's child was young (like under 2) she didn't want the child to be homeless...

AND to make matter worse, my friend had literally just had her first baby! she even watched bm' kid while bm went to work (along with the new baby). NEVER, EVER could I do that.

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Submitted by snowdrop on Wed, 01/29/2014 - 11:05am

yes, she's a wonderful person.... still I don't even aspire to have that kind of heart. haha!

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Submitted by Shaman29 on Wed, 01/29/2014 - 11:08am

I used to dream of flying monkeys ripping Uberskank apart.

Those were good dreams.

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Submitted by snowdrop on Wed, 01/29/2014 - 3:49pm

I should say that she doesn't pay support, YET }:) because she WILL be paying support soon. We won't stop until she does!
mwahahahaha!

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Submitted by snowdrop on Wed, 01/29/2014 - 4:00pm

I'm a big believer in the meaning of dreams... maybe not in a "dreams dictionary" kind of way. but I definitely believe that our dreams reflect back our fears, anxiety, and subconscious struggles. sounds like when you had that dream you were feeling unsafe and threatened by BM, and like no one was going to do anything about it. Even if she hurt someone innocent, she'd lie and blame others and get away with it.... haha I can relate.

when DH and I were dating, and things were starting to get more serious, I had a dream that I found some of BM's enormous, cheap shoes. I looked at the shoes in the shoe box and thought, that they would never fit me and that there was no way I Would be caught dead wearing something so cheep and ugly. Becoming a stepmom was a huge deal. I knew that I would be doing a lot of the parenting with DH because BM was/ is such a deadbeat. you know the saying "those are big shoes to fill." Yup, it is a big job to fill a mother's shoes, lucky for me BM's shoes were garbage so I didn't have to fill them at all, got to bring my own instead.

early on I also had a dream that three vicious and wild baby kangaroos were trying to hurt my little dog (slice him with their sharp nails, etc). I think that the kangaroos symbolized my three skids... interestingly, baby kangaroos belong in their mother's pouch not running around tormenting my little guy! skids never hurt m dog but at the time I think I was feeling unsafe and uncomfortable with them (and their mother) who should have been taking care of them.