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Really BM? Are you Insane? Oh Wait...Yes!

CompletelyPuzzled's picture

So today BM sends DF the following text message:

"Hey DF, SD7 AND SD9 told me that you are planning to take them to ________ this year. I think this is something they should experience with both of their parents. BigWeirdo and I can afford to bring our other three kids t0 ________ but we have no place to stay. Maybe we could stay with you guys at your house. Or you should help pay for a hotel so I can be a part of this to."

DF and I had a good laugh about this and then deleted the message. We figured no response would be best. I really wonder what she is thinking sometimes.

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DarkStar's picture

O.M.G

Hey ex, we want to take a vacation together with our respective families. Oh, can I stay at your house? If not, you can help me pay for a hotel. Thanks!!!!
Said no sane person EVER!!!!!

Mercury's picture

Oh wow. That is terrible. That beats DH's ex asking him if they could still be like brother and sister after their divorce. Ew. Ew. Ew. I'm hoping since she's religious that it was in that context. But still, gag.

luchay's picture

Ummmm NO they don't!!!

My kids are dancing at Disneyland in Sept - this is a big deal for us as we are in Australia - I did inform OH of the troupe because it's only fair to the kids and because I need his permission to take them out of Aus. But in my heart I was thinking "please don't come!"

No way in hell do I want my Ex and his fiancé with us or even anywhere NEAR us!!

QueenBeau's picture

Oh I'm sorry, I meant all crazy BMs lol. I thought this was implied.

SD7's BM, on SD7s 4th bday called DH up saying he should pay for BM, SDthen4, SDthen4's brother with different biodad who was 2, & the other biodad to go to disney for SD7's birthday.

ABSOLUTELY absurd. LOL

Ssamantha's picture

LOL!! BM tried that with us when we wanted to take the kids on a cruise. Except her excuse for going was to make sure the kids were safe. Because their father, SM, grandparents, and my parents wouldn't be able to ensure their safety. She told us that she would stay on the other side of the boat and not even eat with us, just watch the kids from afar. When he told her no, then she said that maybe she could fly to the island we were going to to make sure they were safe.

This woman has never even left the country and doesn't even have a passport and never has enough money to do anything. Cuckoo for cocoa puffs. She told this nonsense to the kids and they told her they didn't want her going either. Weirdo.

asgoodasitgets's picture

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Yep, typical evil BM behavior. They really are all the same, like stepford wives or something.

Disneyfan's picture

BM told DF he should have included her when we took the girls to disney world two years ago.

It came up again last weekend when he told about this years trip to disney. Since we want to fly out two days earlier than his court ordered summer time, he had to get her permission.

omgsaveme's picture

LMFAO !!! This was the highlight of my morning. Are you kidding me ?? I had to reread this .

NCMilGal's picture

BM keeps promising SD18 vacations... But this most recent one, she expects SD18 to manipulate DH into paying to get her to the start point. Really, BM? Since you're using your relatives reward points for the trip, you want DH to be the only one who pays anything while you get all the credit? I don't think so!