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Submitted by bi on Thu, 04/17/2014 - 1:25pm

I knew this day was coming. Been waiting for it, and last night it was announced. SD21 is pregnant with #2. I really do hope this is the last kid they have. It's bad enough that after a year and a half, she still posts pregnancy pictures of herself all the time and all she can ever talk about is PREGNANCY. she misses her belly, she misses being pregnant, bla bla bla. I have never in my life seen anyone so fucking obsessed with pregnancy and having a pregnant belly. it's beyond strange, it makes me wonder what the hell is wrong with her. she kind of acts like the point of being pregnant is to have a belly and get attention, not to have a baby. she was already wanting another one when her first was just a few months old. because she didn't have a belly anymore and he was no longer a newborn. I take pleasure in all parts of my kids lives, not just in utero and the first couple of months.

if they are done after 2, I am almost afraid to think of how she will act. she will probably have 2 high schoolers and still be posting pregnancy pictures and tagging them in them. or she will be suicidal about the idea of never having a belly again. sound over the top? well trust me when I say it's not a stretch. at all. interesting that she gets pregnant right after her younger brother gets someone pregnant, and she has a cousin she is close with who is pregnant. too many bellies around her for her to not have one of her own, I guess. I will just be happy when it's all over with and maybe, just maybe, she will remember how to talk and take pictures of things other than herself, her belly, and her pregnancy. it's gonna be a long 9 months.

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Submitted by bi on Thu, 04/17/2014 - 1:45pm

they got an apt, but I don't think they've moved in yet. as far as I know, they get food stamps and Medicaid, but her dh does have a job. she hasn't had a job since before she got pregnant the first time, I don't know if she's in school, but I don't think so. she was going, and kept changing her mind what she wanted to go for. they have a car. her dh was in school too, but then they had a kid, so I think he's working but not in school anymore.

I'm just so burned out on all the ME ME ME going on with them. first the first kid, then the wedding, now this. I will be so happy when they finally pipe down and I don't have to hear about them or witness her greedily sucking up the spotlight all the time. I have never like attention whores, and she is the worst there is.

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Submitted by bi on Thu, 04/17/2014 - 1:59pm

I've had 3 losses between bs6 and bs10mos, and I wanted a baby for a long time between bd19 and bs6, so of course I was ecstatic when I got pregnant for bs6, and while I was terrified of losing bs10mos and kept quiet about him til the very end, I was so happy to be having a baby. I loved knowing what was coming. never in any of my pregnancies did I take non stop pictures, post all the time, talk about my pregnancy all the time, or say later that I missed my belly or the attention. I am probably the most low maintenance pregnant woman there has ever been. I was happy and thrilled, but I wanted the pregnancy to hurry up and get to the baby part! and I know that the rest of the world isn't sitting on the edge of their seats wanting to see my belly, pamper me, and worship my baby. that shit gets annoying real fast. I will not do something that I find annoying out of other people.

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Submitted by bi on Thu, 04/17/2014 - 1:48pm

I forgot to mention...for all her "my life is so perfect" act, always talking about how in love she and dh are, how much they adore their "blessing of a son", how happy they are, she is on antidepressants. why would anyone need that if their life is so disgustingly perfect?

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Thu, 04/17/2014 - 1:49pm

Her life isn't.... that is why she is posting that it is...to make herself feel better.

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Submitted by bi on Thu, 04/17/2014 - 2:41pm

she is blocked from my newsfeed but that doesn't stop her from getting on the horn and announcing it to everyone. my issue with her regarding pregnancy goes back to her blasing me all over fb a few years, calling me, a 31 year old grown woman with an income (31 at the time) irresponsible for getting pregnant, all because she was worried that it meant less money to be spent on her. when I miscarried 2 weeks later, she openly celebrated right in front of me. yet when it's her getting pregnant twice by 21 and having no job and living on food stamps, everyone is supposed to be thrilled for her. fuck that.

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Submitted by bi on Thu, 04/17/2014 - 6:22pm

someone else said this, too. I don't remember if it was on here or IRL. she planned both babies. she did this on purpose. so I know it's what she wants, but she gets awful defensive of her life to friends who don't have kids. I've always been under the impression that she is trying desperately to create what she didn't have as a kid. bm and fdh didn't work out, they split when she was 3months, and bm was pregnant by someone else when sd was 7 months. :O eowe with fdh her whole life and a mom who isn't worth a shit.

they have date night once a week, and get rid of the kid for at least one night, sometimes 2. I would think that will be coming to a screeching halt with 2. I don't understand why she even wanted another one when she gets rid of the one she already has all the time!

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Thu, 04/17/2014 - 1:49pm

No FB- it will drive you crazy! LOL!

Oh man.... its going to be a long 9 months. Is it wrong to hope she gets REALLY fat?

}:)

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Submitted by bi on Thu, 04/17/2014 - 2:27pm

OMG. bd19 saw the announcement on fb today. SD21 wrote "ATTENTION!" then posted a picture of her kid sleeping and a sign that said "sshhh! I'm resting up to play with my brother or sister coming in December! <3"

ATTENTION! ???? really? like it's some kind of emergency and everyone NEEDS to know about it. all I can do is shake my head.

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Submitted by kathc on Thu, 04/17/2014 - 2:59pm

In December? So, what? She's three weeks pregnant?!?!?!?

I've always thought your SD was a whack job attention whore so I guess I shouldn't be surprised. :sick:

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Submitted by bi on Thu, 04/17/2014 - 6:29pm

there are parts that are great, like feeling baby move, listening to heartbeat, ultrasounds, finding out gender. but there's a lot that can suck. I was over the moon when I found out I was pregnant this last time (but that was mixed with some serious fear), but I still didn't parade around. and that's what she does. she expects everyone to treat her like she is the one and only to ever be pregnant and she's carrying Baby Jesus. she just does not understand how anyone can not look at her and smile and want to see pictures of her belly all the time. :sick: good grief, I don't think I'm that old, but I prefer some things in my life to be a little bit private. you never saw me telling the world about every kick and dr appt and craving I had. she's just ridiculous.

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Submitted by bi on Thu, 04/17/2014 - 10:06pm

with bd19, I puked multiple times every day from conception to birth. I have never been more miserable in my life than I was for that 9 months. it's a freaking miracle I had any more kids at all after that! with bs6, I thought my hips were going to split apart, and with bs10mos, I was very lightheaded and nauseated all the time. not fun. and I'm not going to pretend it was wonderful. it doesn't mean I love them any less. I would do it all over again to have them. but I'm real. if it sucks, it sucks. doesn't mean I think the baby sucks. I'm not sure that sd can tell the difference.