I knew better!
Some of you may recall in my last blog how happy I was that DH and SD were working on their relationship instead of focusing in on me.. Well that lasted almost a week. Of course the focus is back on me. It took me 15 years to finally tell my DH that my Sd17 was not welcome in my home any longer. He agreed and that has been since Christmas. During this entire time I think they have met up 3 times. SD is married and pregnant and living in a house with only her husband. I don't think it is too much to ask of him to visit with her there or anywhere except for our house.
So DH calls me to ask if DD and I are gone because he wants to get cleaned up before he and SD go to dinner. I said why would u even ask that. DH then said because I have SD with me. WTF! He knew I didn't get off for another hour. Way to go DH! Nice of you to make that call with SD sitting next to you. I just said what I can't HEAR YOU your breaking up. So he repeats his question. I say back to him oh I can't understand you. It sounds like your an idiot or something and hung up. He got the hint not to go to the house. So when I get home I say you never should have made that call. Well that blew up into a huge fight. Well when can I start bringing her here. I calmly said to him what has happened that has made you feel I should welcome her back to the house? He was like a deer in headlights. He had no answer. Oh he tried to tell me how much SD misses me and this and that. Then somewhere he slipped. He dug his hole because he said he told her she shouldn't bash people on FB especially someone who has known you for fifteen years. I said wait a minute you just slipped there. She is bashing me on FB? Then he tries to retract his words. I didn't even let him go on. I just said you know your daughter is out of this house for manipulation and lying. I have no problem removing a liar from my life. Harsh? Maybe, but I'm not just going to go down this road again. I took it too long from SD. I'll be damned if I take this from my husband! I sure did think he knew me better than that. At least he knew to camp on the couch tonight!
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Oh he really thinks I will
Oh he really thinks I will come in and fix everything. He has not a clue what to do with her anymore. I think tonight I will tell him for sure to get off that fence or better yet just STAY OUT OF MY YARD!
Actually he didn't see the FB post, get this BM told him about it. I guess BM and SD were in a fight when DH went to pick up SD. SD must have really pissed off BM for her to drag her ass over to SD's. Not that I feel BM had my back or anything. She just used it to let DH know hey SD is just as much a shit to your wife as she is to me. In the middle of the argument with DH he tells me SD was so upset and crying when he picked her up because she was fighting with BM. I said what were they fighting about. He said I really don't know SD was saying how BM doesn't do anything with her anymore and doesn't take her shopping. Basically that BM doesn't spend any time with her anymore. I just said well I guess BM is tired of her shit too.
AS soon as DH's support
AS soon as DH's support stopped. BM stopped supporting her too, but SD and BM were the ones who wanted her to get married. SD made her bed now she can lye in it!
the song U and Ur hand by
Like a turtle flipped over on
Like a turtle flipped over on his shell. That is what it looked like to me. There is nothing I hate more than a liar!
Just like that "she misses you" hooky pookey. Yeah, I miss her, too. Like a bad rash on a hot summer day. I think not. Bullsh*t meter is 0 to 60 in two seconds. SMH. whatever.
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My thoughts exactly!
Are we married to the same
Are we married to the same man?
I don’t think my DH is
I don’t think my DH is intelligent enough to get away with that! If you are would you be willing to take him on full time for a few months?
Luckymomme I so wish I would
Luckymomme I so wish I would have reapeated to him your exact words! You know my frustration so well! xoxo
I agree. I am the B*tch
I agree. I am the B*tch either way so what does it really matter? I really should have given it to him while she was in earshot. I could kick myself for that. SD has NO CLUE how mean I can be. I always was the one who disciplined her, but I was never mean to her. I was always the one she came to when she needed help and more times than not I helped her. I knew her better than her parents. I knew she was manipulative and a liar, but I still loved her because I thought most of it was a result of living with her BM and being used and manipulated so much herself. I tried to do right by her and I am STILL trying. The right thing is for her and her father to bond. If they can't then it is on them. Oh they will blame me if they can't, but I will have NO GUILT!
Ok, this really pissed me off
Ok, this really pissed me off for you. Your DH wants to bring someone into your home who he knows dislikes you and is bashing you publicly on FB for the world to see and your the bad guy. Why doesn't he say to his daughter on FB for the world to see, do not speak of my wife like that, why can't he have your back? I'm glad you made him sleep on the couch, and I hope you make him sleep there until he figures it out.
AS far I know he does not
AS far I know he does not have a FB, but I agree he should have called her out on it. He should have at least made her pull it up so he could read it. I guess he just doesn't care enough! Oh I don't have to worry about telling him to sleep on the couch. He knows he is in the dog house for sure and if he does come back then I'm going to the guest room. That is what he should have done anyway. I guess he just wanted to show my DD that I was making him sleep on the couch. WHAT A VICTIM! GAG ME!
I say back to him oh I can't
I say back to him oh I can't understand you. It sounds like your an idiot or something and hung up.
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Bahahaha! Perfect!
What a turd. So can you see her facebook? I would want to see what she is saying, and print it out. Then the next time DH tried to bring her over, fling the paper at him and tell him you do not allow people in your house that say things like that about you. EVER?
Ugh...Im mad for you.
Nope I blocked her after
Nope I blocked her after Christmas so I have no idea what is in the "bashing". I think I will write down the reasons why she is not allowed in my home. Just for the sake of I'm tired of repeating myself. Then tell him when you can take away at least half of what is on that list then we will talk about her coming back over.
MY HUSBAND IS AN IDIOT! I
MY HUSBAND IS AN IDIOT! I just said the first thing that came to mind. You would think that after her sneaking off to get married and pregnant at 17 DH would have notice the princess' crown has tarnished!