okay got MSD's attendance records
***Refer to last 2 blogs for background...
Out of 244 days of school, she only attended class 73 of those days. She basically stopped attending school in February. She was absent every day starting in Feb. and they were all unexcused. There were numerous other days that she was absent between Sept-Jan but most were excused for "medical reasons". Assuming they gave her a pass because she has a baby that was born 3 months early (born in May 2013)and that is why she was out those days.
Here's the kicker (and not surprised)in March she sat at our house and told us that she was still in school and I told her that her mom was collecting CS and if she wasn't in school to let us know... and she lied and said she was still in school.. even though by this point she hadn't even been going for 2 months.
And her own mother kicked her out of her house (a couple of months prior) with a baby and when she did live there, made her pay RENT (all while collecting CS). BM is a total cunt to her own daughter AND STILL MSD protected her... knowing she was collecting CS and MSD wasn't living there or going to school.
Child support did respond back and gave the # to domestic courts and said to call them and they would tell us what to do.... so that is at least good.
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Good deal, fingers crossed
Good deal, fingers crossed for you.
My SD tried to keep her marriage a secret so we would not know to stop CS, which was going to BM even though SD had been living with BM's mother. And BM was not giving any money to her mother. These kids are somethin' else with their fierce loyalty to these low life BM's.
The loyalty to BM I just dont
The loyalty to BM I just dont get! Its one thing if BM did the right thing with MSD best interests but no she is greedy and screwed MSD over.
What is with these BMs?
What is with these BMs?
Hopefully they agree with the
Hopefully they agree with the over payment! That is sick that someone would do that to their own child/ grandchild. That is not HER money. She should have at least been giving it to MSD. Evil, greedy woman!
Had she been giving the money
Had she been giving the money to MSD, then we wouldn't even pursue it. But since she didn't its like basically handing BM the money.
*update... school said she
*update... school said she was still enrolled (so not sure if that will be a factor) but there was a truancy filed. So I'm sure it went to BM's house, so BM was aware she wasnt going to school.
Sad thing... MSD only had 1.5 credits to complete to graduate.
She really should do whatever
She really should do whatever she needs to do to get that diploma.
Even though she did not officially drop out (does any teen really do that? Don't they just stop going?) I would think that would be considered dropping out. I mean, if a person was not attending, did not resume attending after receiving a truancy notice, did not graduate; that's a high school drop out.
Where I live, the statute states, "the child is enrolled in and ATTENDING a secondary school" and "progresses toward completion of said program". Your SD did not do that.