Well, well, well - an ASS update UPDATE TO THE UPDATE
text exchange between DH and me this morning
DH - talked to ASS. He is coming to live with my parents then going to LocalCommunityCollege
me - Wow! That was fast....License? When will he start school?
DH - Still more to figure out but he gave up on living in MedusaTown, so that's good
me - did he call you?
DH - Yes. I haven't talked to my parents yet, but he did. They are out of town
me - Wowee wow wow. told ya so....
DH - yeah, yeah, you were right. you really always are and I both love that and hate that, you know...
me - yeah, I am aware. so, he MUST get a driver's license. Your parents will NOT be driving him to school
DH - yup told him that already
me - and same college deal as before, right? He pays some and we pay some...thinking he might not like that part
DH - yup told him that, too
me - and????
DH - he hasn't responded yet
So, there it is, STalkers. Took all of 2 months for ASS to figure out that he isn't the shit after all 
Thankfully, DH's parents live about 20 minutes away and they don't like me so I NEVER have to see them. LOL!!!
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^^^Oh, yeah, this. Right now
^^^Oh, yeah, this. Right now I'll bet they think they're "saving him" from mean ol' you. LMAO Are they in for a TREAT! }:)
Just make sure that your DH won't get talked into taking him back when they don't want him there anymore!
they loved me in the
they loved me in the beginning because I was helping DH get the skids away from Medusa....all hell broke loose when they asked me why I was "so mean" to ASS and when I told them the truth about him calling the police, CPS, lying about me to the people at school, well, they just refused to believe that their pwecious could be such an ASS.
Joke's on you, DH's parents, you're about to find out how unpleasant it is having a smelly, surly 18 year old ASS under your roof.
Do you think he will act the
Do you think he will act the same in his grandparents' home as he did in yours? I hope they get the full ASS effect so they know what you were dealing with.
Nah, he will probably behave
Nah, he will probably behave himself over there.
Where will ASS get the
Where will ASS get the vehicle to drive?
Not from us. He blew it by
Not from us. He blew it by not getting his license when he should have. Karate Kid got DH's old car when he turned 16. We don't have any extra cars lying around now.
lol wooowww wob. you'll have
lol wooowww wob. you'll have to post an update when/IF he responds to dh about the college funds!!! remember, he didnt ASK to be born... }:) }:) }:)
i also am curious how he's going to get back to town, if your dh or his parents will transport...
UPDATE me - when was this
UPDATE
me - when was this plan hatched? What did he say to you specifically?
DH - said he couldn't find a place to live and that life was hard
me - no. He MADE his life hard. I meant what did he say about the money piece? Your parents are okay with supporting him? Seems unlikely to me
DH - a lot more needs to be figured out. I'm meeting my dad for lunch on Monday
Oh, I am quite sure they will
Oh, I am quite sure they will let him live there rent free and not having to contribute around the house.
I just texted DH and pretty much read your comment - lol!!!
I also added that I hoped he would encourage them to have the same requirements he would have had had he remained at home - get a job, help around the house, pay some rent, go to school.
Your DH is going to turn over
Your DH is going to turn over boatloads of money to his parents for doing this. And then he can claim that he is not giving ASS any money.
Nope - already had that
Nope - already had that conversation. He will make it clear that if his parents take ASS in, it's on their dime.
What did you do to your
What did you do to your in-laws
How do they feel about duct
How do they feel about duct tape?
Oh no, I don't believe that
Oh no, I don't believe that for one second. My guess is that he went to DH's parents because he knew they would let him live there rent free and without having to contribute in any way, shape or form to the household.
He needs to learn that when he fights authority, authority always wins. But he won't learn that lesson at his grandparents' house.
don't forget The Authority
don't forget The Authority Song by Mr. Mellenhead
Scoreboard: Reality:
Scoreboard:
Reality: 1
Unicorn Sprinkling Rainbow Glitter Skid: 0
LOL! exactly!! the only
LOL!
exactly!!
the only downside for me is that if I choose to spend time at the in-laws (which I haven't since all this nonsense with ASS started), I will have to see ASS. Oh, and I suppose I will have to see him at holidays??
No matter - he still isn't living in my home
Your in-laws don't sound like
Your in-laws don't sound like people that add anything to your life. They basically called you a liar for daring to speak the truth about ASS.
And no you do NOT have to see him at holidays if that means at your house.
they are very odd folks -
they are very odd folks - even when they adored me. They are sullen, they don't speak much and they are rude. DH says it's just "their way" but I don't care about that - did you ever know someone who was just rude?
That's them. Especially my MIL. She's the worst!!
Not sure how the holiday shit will shake out. But, if DH expects me to have a great big old Thanksgiving with everyone at my house, he's got another thing coming.
I would sooner go have Chinese than have ASS back in my house...even for a meal.
Remember I'm the one who told
Remember I'm the one who told DH that that his son couldn't come for Christmas dinner. DH pouted for a few days, but he got over it. It can be done.
Oh, yes...I will do the same
Oh, yes...I will do the same thing you did
Plus, I have the fact that ASS can't stand to be near me in my back pocket - lol!!