SS13 strikes again!!!!
SS13 told DD8 he wished she wasn't born. Idk if he thinks if she hadn't been born his parents would be together or what but I know they wouldn't be because once my MIL found out SS was DH's she tried to force DH to marry BM and even got a marriage license for them to sign and DH refused. MIL thought because DH and BM had a kid together they should be married but then MIL told me she's glad they didn't get married because she knows it was ended in divorce. Then he dated a psycho path who is obsessed with me but that's for a different time.
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She should tell SS that she
She should tell SS that she doesn't care if he wishes she wasn't born - because she actually has parents who are happy that she was born and he doesn't. }:) }:) }:)
That's rough....I did explain
That's rough....I did explain to DD that me and DH were committed to each other before we had her. We were engaged before she was born. I explained to her that SS is just jealous of her because he doesn't have what she has which is her parents are married and are in love.
To be clear - my message
To be clear - my message about DD telling SS he wasn't wanted like her was in jest - hence the little devil icons.
But I see nothing wrong with the OP telling her daughter that she is loved and wanted by her parents and is lucky to have both of them to live with. She did NOT say that to the obnoxious skid. She did not say to do what I suggested sarcastically.
She just told her DH the truth. And helping her DD to understand why her SS is being mean might help her tolerate him more.
DH never married BM I'm the
DH never married BM I'm the only wife he's ever had. Many years later he met me so nope I wasn't his mistress or the other woman. DH and BM worked together and did drugs together I know that's a part of DHs life he wished he could forget but it did happen. He got clean and sober and she didn't and also did drugs while pregnant with SS and he does have some disabilities due to her drug use. No I do not think I am better than BM and I don't think DD is better than SS. What it mainly boils down to is that we made choices in life that brought us both down different paths. I have been a part of SS's life since he was 4 and he turns 14 this year. DH thinks the pettiness will be less once school starts.
Well I think you are better
Well I think you are better than BM because you did not do drugs while pregnant. That's a pretty aholey thing to do.
I've never done drugs I don't
I've never done drugs I don't understand why people do them. I feel bad for SS I really do. He doesn't understand why he has the disabilities that he has and I'm not the one to say why.
It's fine and dandy that
It's fine and dandy that y'all feel I was wrong but it's been told to DD before by DH that SS is upset that his parents never married and he had to choose between living with his dad or live with his mom because they live in different cities.
Siblings say stuff/do to each
Siblings say stuff/do to each other all the time. My sister threw me outside the house naked once because I let the old nosey neighbor lady read her diary.
I agree! yep, my sister and
I agree! yep, my sister and i tried to burn each other with curling irons for taking each other's clothes and said all kind of rotten things. And we were considered pretty decent kids, all have careers, good adult relationships with each other, productive citizens, no problems. Kids can be rotten to each other. Little siblings annoy the crap out of bigger ones all the time. When they go too far you correct it and move on with life. No need to Dr. Phil it all up.
Ha Ha! My sister also once
Ha Ha! My sister also once shoved a hot pot pie in my face. Straight out of the oven. I was telling her boyfriend some pretty embarrassing stuff about her and she told me if I didnt shut up she was going to do it. I kept doing it. Thankfully we are best friends, otherwise I would be holding a grudge. LOL.
Well my step sisters and my
Well my step sisters and my bio sister once wrote on the chalkboard in our bedroom for me to "Shut my hole" and our parents didn't care then either
I was 6 years old. I cried about it. 
Side note- I talked A LOT and can totally understand why they would have told me that. LOL
OP did not say that her
OP did not say that her daughter was better than the SS - but her daughter is in a better living situation than SS as she has both parents.
That her life is enhanced by living with both parents is a fact.
That she thinks she is "better" than SS is just a stupid assumption that some people are trying to assert. That is not a fact. It's an opinion.
Kids and even some adults can be absolute jealous asses when someone has something that they don't have. Sometimes it's not fair about who gets to have a pony and who doesn't. But being a have not is never an excuse for being an obnoxious ass. Better to learn that as a kid.
rectly is not a fact. It's an opinion.
My DH's older daughter used
My DH's older daughter used to write down "diary" entries about how she wished her younger sister had never been born or would die or would be sent away. She was daddy's little girl and I think that her parent's marriage really imploded shortly after the younger girl's birth. That must have made her sister think that they would have been ok if that ruinous little brat hadn't been born and stole all the thunder.