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DH and I were discussing the upcoming events...

BSgoinon's picture

SS has a lot going on over the next few months. It won't be long before BM starts ranting about what she "deserves".

Next week I will be registering SS for High School (OMG!!) and we have no intentions of of including BM on the paperwork. I have no address for her, no phone number, and she has not asked once about registration or even what school he will be attending.

May... Mothers Day. Oh Lawd. This one should be interesting. Last year DH limited her time with him because she was CLEARLY not sober. She took him to breakfast, back to the house she was staying at which was up the street from us, and then home by 11 am. She was angry about her time being limited on "her day" but she couldn't argue the fact that she can't be trusted with him. A month later was when she completely stopped seeing him on a regular basis. June 8th to be exact. That was the last time she saw him without her dad being present. She couldn't drive with SS (because she had no insurance and DH wouldn't allow her to), so her mom and brother helped. That is also the last time she saw her mom and her brother.

June 6th- SS's 8th grade graduation. We will get 4 tickets. DH will be out of town for work. I will also get 4 tickets for DD since they are in the same grade, same school. So I will have 8 total. Me, my mom, ExH, his mom... I have 4 left. I plan on giving 2 to BM's dad and stepmom, leaves me with 2. I am giving them to a coworker that has more family than she does tickets. Sorry BM, we are all out.

I don't even want to think about his bday this summer. Last year DH didn't let her see him. It was the week after she tried to keep SS from going to Cooperstown. SS didn't want to see her.

Ugh... she makes my stomach turn.

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BSgoinon's picture

Yup, just not looking forward to her bitching and moaning about it. **EYEROLL** all of the sudden she will give DH the "SS WANTS his mom there, he just won't tell you because he thinks you will be mad"... To which DH will either IGNORE, OR... tell her "SS hasn't even spoken to you, how do you know what he wants?"..

BSgoinon's picture

Thank you. I can't believe my two littles are going in to high school. Feels like yesterday we were dropping them off for their first day of PreSchool. Crazy.

Yeah... SS doesn't want BM at his graduation, he is completely embarrassed of her. He has started referring to me as his mom with his friends now.