Just found out BM mentioned a visit this summer

During the Mother's Day phone call. I guess she told SS15 she was trying to find the money to come visit. She tells him this at least twice a year. I wish like the Dicken's she would stop that crap. It gets his hopes up.

Then, DH tells me; she wants to stay with us.

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH AHAHAHAHAHA AHAHAHAHAHAHAHA AHAHAHWHWHAHAHAHAH AHAHAHAH AHAHAH

NEVER AGAIN.

NOT HAPPENING.

Then she can't afford to come.
Fine with me. She needs to get her finances straight then. Cos I am NOT her bed and breakfast.

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Is she a nut case!!!!

Is she a nut case!!!! }:)

She stayed with us once

She stayed with us once before. The only reason I allowed it was because I really wanted SS to be able to see her. This was like 5 years ago now? NEVER AGAIN.

BM seems to think she has a

BM seems to think she has a constant invite to our house. Everytime she talks about coming up to visit SD, she hints at sleeping at our house and I have to remind her that no, our house is off-limits. We have no room and we're too busy to have guests. LOL. Then her talks about coming up to visit slowly end until next time when she hints at staying with us. I don't know why exes think it would make any sense or be even remotely comfortable to have them stay in our homes!

IKR! There is a reason you

IKR!

There is a reason you and DH are no longer living together. And NO, we are not going to pretend the issues don't exist for a "visit with SS". Besides, I work too darned hard to come home to a house that looks like a hostel. Not happening.

Lol or the opposite. BM

Lol or the opposite. BM required DH to stay at her house (actually GBM's house) if he wanted visitation so she could "supervise." Why he has to LIVE there is beyond me.

Hell to the F no. The Ex does

Hell to the F no. The Ex does not stay in MY home. I don't care if its really OUR home the ex is an ex for a reason. There is no reason she needs to stay there and it is only confusing for the children.

She shouldn't get the little one's hopes up either because yeah it you guys who have to help him cope when she doesn't show up. I would have dad keep up communication with son. Ask him how he feels about mom coming. If he's super excited or he just wants to be but knows she wont follow though. At 15 he should have a good picture of her patterns of promises and not following through. Dad can help keep him grounded. Yes it will be nice if she does come but if not it has nothing to do with you.