my bf and I have been dating almost a year and decided this last weekend camping that it would be opportuned time to share the same bed. We get the kids 12, 10, and 7 everyother weekend and have maybe stayed the nite together 2 or 3 times, always sleeping in separate beds. We have given this alot of thought and wanted to progress in our relationship. I'm sure when the kids get back to the bm's and she gets a chance to get the past weekends sleeping arrangements, my bf will be getting a phone call tonight from here, which she always waits until 8:00 pm or later to call to discuss things. This is here manipulative tactic to show me she still has control whether we are together or not. But my question is; how he should handle her phone call, she is going to be po'd that this happened and will let him know that she doesn't approve. She does this with any new milestone that comes along. She really needs to move on.