So last nite, 8 pm after getting homework, dinner fixed and cleaned up, baths done etc. BD6 is in jammies in bed watching her 15min of alloted disney channel before lights out.
BS16 is in his room right next to hers either doing homework or sleeping. I look in BD6's door and say "Im gonna run to the convienient store right behind our house and I will be right back. Your brother is in his room if u need anything".
During the whole 3 1/2 min I was gone She calls her dad(my ex) and when I walk in her room she is in tears. From what I can hear on her end of the conversation, she told him I left her alone! I explained to her that her brother was right there and even showed her. She said "dad told me to call him if u ever left me alone"
I have NEVER done that. I do leave her with her 16yo brother to run errands sometimes. But he usually is not home cuz he is 16 so she goes with me.
Then he ask to talk to me.....
I take the phone

me: she was not alone, Brother was here
him: if he is asleep then that is the same as leaving her alone
me: Uh no its not
him: yes it is, why couldnt she just go with you?
me: she was in her bed in her jammies and it was a quick trip AND HER ALMOST 17YO BROTHER IS HERE!
him: well now that just makes me wonder if you sneak out in the middle of the nite and leave her there alone when they are sleeping.....
me: I do not have to discuss this with you
him: OH YES YOU DO.
me: so you are saying that I should stay awake all nite in case she wakes up? And she wasnt alone. her brother is here.
him: nevermind, you just dont get it.
me: apparently not, bye.

Now, I will admit to being somewhat sarcastic, but WTF? why does he (ex) who only sees her 3 or 4 nites a month, Think he gets to run my house from an hour away???

THEN at 10 pm
BF's ex starts texting him the second he gets off work and comes to my house. She is telling him that she "set up parent teacher conferences and this is the day and time I set them up and If you want to come then come, but it is whats is convenient for ME" And if "you are not going to take OUR daughters to THEIR home on the weekends you have them , then just give me the house and I will buy it from you because this is the house you bought for OUR daughters"

So I am wondering, for real, Are we a minority? Us normal people? seriously...
Or are we the wackjobs??

Keep in mind both these exes want us to come back to them too,.... After they both had affairs while married, and are both living with their affair bf/gf.....
BF and I do not live together, we do spend alot of time together when not working though. And he does sleep over 4 nites a week.