Hello. I am new here and wanted to ask a few things. If someone would be so kind to write back:) First off, I think I need a break down of all the lingo around here. BM, DH, SS. I can figure out some, but it would be helpful to include any and all that are used throughout posts. Second, I am not ready to sit here and bitch just quite yet, because isn't that what this is all about anyways? Trying to find a common "relationship" with a stranger to make you feel less like a crazy person? I above all, need this for my own support system because as it stands now, I unfortunately don't have one. No friends, family, spouse, co-worker, etc. has extended their love and support for my sadness in my wretched situation. Starting to wonder if it really is just me. My loved ones can't really be so cruel can they? Yes, I believe they can. So, perfect stranger, where are you?
My Problem:
I am newly married with a 4 year old step-son who has an unreasonable, irrational and co-dependent woman as a mother. I find my situation very unfair for the most part for several reasons. I am looking for someone preferrably a female with whom I can relate to. I am looking for advice, guidance, support and mostly someone who can listen. This may sound too needy, but I feel this is what I have become as of late. Seems like a lot of women on here are older and have step children in their teens. I am hoping to find a woman in their late twenties to mid thirties with small children/step children to confide in and learn from.
I have already found so much interesting and useful information on this site, so I want to thank you all for your posts, advice to one another and suport you give each other every day. I hope to become a small part of it all:)