o/t a little, Does Bm make you wonder?
For those of you who have a VERY UNattractive BM, you will understand what I mean when I ask, "FDH what the HELL were you thinking?"
I call our bm Jabba The Hutt for a reason! EEEWWW!! This has GOT to be the ugliest woman I've ever laid eyes on. I've seen photos from when she was younger and yep, still ugly as home made sin! Thinner a bit, but, FUGLY just the same.
Which leads me to my question, WHAT THE HELL WAS FDH THINKING????
Add on her craziness, AND her terrible disposition, it just makes her even uglier. Fdh is the most kind, handsome, good looking, "Sane" Italian Man I've ever met! This makes me wonder even further, HOW did Jabba end up Married to MY FDH? Oh, that's right, she got pregnant accidentally (on purpose) and Fdh felt obligated to marry the whore!
I was just wondering if any one else felt the same about their bm? Does anyone else look at bm and want to hurl?
I cannot for the life of me
I cannot for the life of me understand why my beautiful husband would have married this ugly pathetic revolting bitch of a, well we cant even say women now as she is a self confessed leso these days, but she was ugly fat and horrible back in the day he chose her over me, and she is even worse now...omg she makes me sick just looking at her....Im so suprised my darling didnt catch something off her...
my DH wants to shoot her....all his friends say she was threatening him to make him marry her....but I still wanna know why why why????
aaaggg....it makes me feel physicallly ill
LMAO if your BM had 2 sons
LMAO if your BM had 2 sons id think your dh was our BMs long lost other baby daddy lol smart f*cker hauled tail the day she said im pregnant and hasnt been heard from in 2 yrs and trust me she has been looking she wants that money.
Oh and DH had low self esteem his gf of 2 yrs turned lesbian and hauled it and bm was there in the middle of the drunken stupor with her first son and desperatley wanted a daddy for her little boy, and dh didnt realize that he is a very good looking man and could have knocked up way better lol. i am according to dh the most beautiful woman he has ever seen and wonders daily why i chose him when i could have anyone..
his exact words
Fdh said the exact same thing
Fdh said the exact same thing to me just a few days ago! We were driving down the road and I was just fiddling with the radio, Fdh looked over and says "sometimes I wonder why your with me, you're so beautiful, you could have any guy, and I'm just ugly" I actually teared up a little. Fdh is FAR from ugly! Bm has done a number on his self-esteem.
Our BM being unnattractive
Our BM being unnattractive made me self conscious about me thinking maybe I am not as pretty as I think if he went from her to me lol. But when people have seen what she looks like they always step back and go "eww really?" so that makes me feel better. When I saw her this last summer she had lost a lot of weight because she had no car and had to walk everywhere and it still didn't bother me because she looked grey, had a shadow of a mustach and was thin everywhere except her belly where she looked 6 months pregnant, and she was wearing a shirt that wouldn't keep her flopping boobs in place. I smiled and was down right giddy which helped keep everything cordial.
Oooooh, yes. BM is... kinda
Oooooh, yes.
BM is... kinda pretty if you look at the caked-on makeup to hide the severe acne scars. And ignore the fact that she is literally DOUBLE my weight. (I am not tiny - I'm a healthy 130 lbs)
Of course, she weighs that much because of the steroids for the sarcoidosis, and oh, there's the fatty liver disease, and the PCOS, and her baaaaack from the car accident ages ago. Personally I think she suffers more for Sit-On-Her-Ass disease and Stuff-Her-Mouth disease.
She was a big girl back then, and was also a raging bitch. (hasn't changed) DH should have KNOWN from meeting her batshit crazy mother and grandmother (both diagnosed bipolar and addicted to various substances) but nooooo.....
DH didn't marry her but I
DH didn't marry her but I asked, the answer I got was I was young getting laid & experimenting with drugs
^^^This...
^^^This...
I wonder all the time. SO and
I wonder all the time. SO and I work for the same company at different locations. Most everyone at work knows BM and all described her the same way "crack whore" they know me and said that SO took an elevator to step up from BM to me LOL.
She is about 5'2 and maybe weighs 90 lbs hence the crack whore description. She has a big head of scraggly dried out hair on her little body she looks like a dirty mop }:) I have never seen her in person just in old pictures. Same thing with her she got knocked up and showed her crazy side so he broke it off with her. He even got married to someone else!!!!! Now his first wife was drop dead gorgeous co-workers still talk about her they described her as Selma Hayek without the big boobs lol. That marriage lasted three years but his first wife couldn't handle the crazy BM. BM had had SD21 at this point and they shared custody. So his hot wife split. It took about 6mos and he got together with BM for SD's sake is what he says. Then he stayed with her cheating,lying,crazy ass for 16 years!! I don't get it :?
Now he's with me :). Now I'm no Selma Hayek but I look a million times better on my worse day than BM could ever look
My ds15 asked my fdh "you
My ds15 asked my fdh "you married HER?!" I thought I'd fall out of my chair! I was thinking the same thing, just didn't want to hurt his feelings!! Lmao, kids say the damnedest things.
Yeah my DH and I have had
Yeah my DH and I have had this discussion many times. She is okay looking - well she used to be. Very plain. Average. Mousy hair, nothing outstanding really. Would never stand out in a crowd...whereas I am a complete 180. Now...she looks like she stuck her finger in her mouth and started blowing...causing her entire body to look like the pillsbury dough-boy, in addition to cutting her hair to look more masculine, and her massively large front teeth...we aren't really sure what she looks like now. She's not pretty by any standards. The skids were at the dentist and she showed up...(we're talking dough-boy here) dressed in a belly shirt, with her belly hanging over her belt. Nuff said. My DH can't be in the same room as her (for years now) without feeling ill for the rest of the day or the day after (he won't even eat after seeing her) because he thinks she's so 'gross'. He chastises himself more than I do for sleeping with her in the first place. He really is too hard on himself. He liked her and didn't know she was crazy, or a sleeping-around neighbourhood whore. But I guess hindsight is everything.
My BM is my SIL, my step is
My BM is my SIL, my step is her son. That's why I call CTBB "psuedo-step". As a young woman:Skinny crack whore look w/ stringy hair, tattoos, and a terrible temper. As an older woman:90 lbs heavier w/ chin hairs.
It isn't about the looks.
It isn't about the looks. Men will find one "okay" attribute and focus on it and go with it. Be it the boobs, the ass, the legs, the hair...the total package may be extremely fugly...but if one "thing" is a 5, they bang it.
Our BM is okay looking - she
Our BM is okay looking - she has a face that looks pretty in some photos and pretty eyes, but she is really short, has crispy, short, dyed red hair, and HORRIBLE boobs. They are small and saggy and she insists on wearing tube tops and strapless sundresses with no bra. Not an attractive look for her. She has zero style and resembles a 70s porn star when she is trying to look good or a truck stop waitress when she isn't.
SD17 is absolutely beautiful - she has her mom's blue eyes, but hair, full lips, eye shape, face shape, and body come from DH's side of the family. His mom was gorgeous when she was younger. I always laugh when BM's friends say how much SD looks like BM on Facebook in her photos. She looks almost nothing like her.
You are all going to give me
You are all going to give me a complex! I am 5'2" and tiny and I don't think I am fugly! I am more like 115 lbs, though, not 90!
SD's mom was less than 5' and DH is 5'4" and SD is SURE she will be taller than me. HAHA! Doubtful!
YES!!!! I've asked DH this
YES!!!! I've asked DH this numerous times. I got this same response as someone else had said about drugs, getting laid, and oh yeah, she got preganant and he's a preachers son, so getting married was the "right" thing to do. lol I will give BM this, she has got style. She dresses really well, but that doesnt make up for her bitchy personality. And she has what I call a "dysfunctional floating eye". Idk, its like where you cant tell if she's looking AT you, or around you, through you, all I know is THANK GOD the kids look like him.
LOL OMG I LOVE THIS SITE!!!!
LOL OMG I LOVE THIS SITE!!!!
I saw pics of BM when DH met her she was average looking...so she wasn't ugly but she got pregnant and must have forgotten that after the baby was born you STOP eating for two! She is like triple the size she was when DH married her. He said it was a mistake he honestly didn't know her...they dated a month...he was in the service and was lonely everyone else had someone to come home to...it broke my heart to hear that...anyways as she gets bigger she gets more and more moles on her face AND they have all this hair growing out of them and *VOMIT* ugh I can't stand looking at her.
SS calls her the sandwich monster he says she eats 5 sandwiches at a time. I told him that wasn't true he came back from her house a few days later and said he was wrong it's 6 sandwiches...he counted LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL