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what should I do?? HELP? Leave or hang it out...

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Submitted by BLUEEYES on Tue, 04/10/2012 - 1:18pm

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I am condfused on what to do??? I am so sick of the drama with the ex wife and now my step kids too that back and forth with back talking about me and my family at dads house, making things up, causing arguments etc... I feel like just leaving and divorcing him and getting out of their life.

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Submitted by herewegoagain on Tue, 04/10/2012 - 1:43pm

I read your profile...

You have one kid from another relationship and two kids with this guy...hmmm...you need to stay. You need to figure things out. It can't be healthy for your kids to live in this mess, but it also is not healthy for you to divorce this guy and then your first child will end up a third guy? No. You need to figure things out. You need a time out, as I can only imagine that it is very stressful with all the his, mine and ours kids in the mix...but you need to try to work on this and not give up so easily.

If you had no kids together, I would tell you to run.

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Submitted by Poodle on Tue, 04/10/2012 - 2:10pm

don't know enough but some basics are, all the kids are young, so, Angel don't relate directly to the ex, (b) don't do childcare for the skids, (c)keep your family apart from the step family, (d) try not to argue with DH, run ideas past sms on this site and you can then vent here and be cool there. Cool, calm and collected is the way forward. hope this helps